I had been dreading this visit for months. A trip to the DMV rarely stirs joy. Strife, anxiety, and frustration? Yes. Waiting, wondering, and wishing we could run that office better ourselves seems to be the name of the game.
I’d already had an unsuccessful appointment once before, so this time I came armed with every document imaginable. To sweeten the deal, I tucked a novel into my bag, convincing myself I would turn wasted hours into reading hours.
I walked in ready for a quiet retreat into my book, but what I stepped into was pure chaos. The waiting room was jam-packed, and a confusing line twisted through the foyer. After scanning the sign’s QR code to secure my place in line, I squeezed onto the hard hallway floor with about thirty other weary souls. Unlike the chatter of the main waiting room, this space was silent except for the occasional cough, a phone buzzing, or someone muttering a frustrated question.
Before long, more people streamed through the doors. The QR code quickly became everyone’s enemy, as most had no idea how to check in. Their stress was palpable, and I realized I could help. In that moment, I let go of my dream of uninterrupted reading time and recalled one of the most well-known stories Jesus told — the Parable of the Good Samaritan.
Jesus tells of a Jewish man who was attacked by robbers and left for dead along the road to Jericho. Several religious men passed by, yet only one person stopped to help — a Samaritan, the very enemy of the Jews, and the most unlikely of heroes. He bandaged the man’s wounds, provided for his care, and showed compassion when no one else would.
It’s a story many of us could retell in our sleep, but it is worth pausing to revisit (Luke 10:25–37). Jesus paints a clear picture of who our neighbors are and ends with a charge that is as relevant today as it was then: “Go and do likewise.”
When I was researching for my Bible study, Just Open the Door: A Study on Biblical Hospitality, that simple charge changed everything for me. While I desire for all of us to swing wide our doors, that kind of hospitality doesn’t always come easy. With a “hospitality on the go” mindset, it can occur in the most ordinary and inconvenient places, basically wherever our feet take us throughout the day.
My daily conviction now asks: Who is on my Jericho Road today?
It’s easy to make excuses about why we can’t invite people into our homes, and I’ve made plenty myself. But what about when the Lord brings people right to us — along our Jericho Road? In those moments, we have a choice. Will we cross to the other side of the street, avoid eye contact in the office hallway, or ignore the gentleman who needs help at the DMV? Or will we go to meet the one in need?
They say the third time’s the charm, and it took three nudges from the Holy Spirit before I finally got up off the floor, positioned myself by the QR code sign, and began helping people. It felt awkward at first, but it was far worse to watch one person after another stumble with no idea what to do. I’d been waiting long enough to step in and meet a need.
One by one, I showed people how to use their phones to scan the code. I discovered that some elderly guests had been waiting for over an hour without ever knowing they needed to be on the digital list. I walked them to the desk, explained their situation, and helped get them squared away.
At one point, a gentleman in the hall called out, “The DMV should pay you for becoming their official greeter. You know more than the people at the desk!” The whole hallway chuckled, and I replied, “Well, I think the DMV has turned me into the ‘Queen of Forced Bonding.’ Looks like we’re all going to get to know each other today.”
And we did.
That once-cold hallway slowly sparked to life. I asked one gentleman where he lived, which prompted another woman to share memories of her grandfather’s farm nearby. As I continued asking simple questions, stories revealed diverse backgrounds — fascinating and heartbreaking.
What struck me most was how eager people were for connection. Soon, strangers were laughing, reminiscing, sharing pieces of their lives, and yes, even bonding over mutual grievances. In that cramped, uncomfortable hallway, I saw loneliness begin to break apart. Smiles replaced sighs. Stories replaced silence. And somewhere between scanning QR codes and swapping local tales, our weary group of strangers became a little community.
It wasn’t the day I had planned. I didn’t get to read a single page of my book. But it was exactly the day the Lord had planned. Interruptions became divine appointments.
Hospitality didn’t happen around my kitchen table that afternoon — it happened in a fluorescent-lit DMV hallway. And it reminded me that the heart of biblical hospitality is about being present, noticing the people God places in our path, and extending kindness right where we are.
The Good Samaritan didn’t plan to encounter a wounded man. But he did. And he stopped. And he made room for a stranger. In the same way, we are called to open our eyes to the “Jericho Roads” we walk every day — whether that’s the DMV, the grocery store, or even the school pickup line.
So the next time you feel the nudge of the Spirit — whether it’s to speak up, lend a hand, or simply listen — don’t brush it aside. Those nudges may be the very opportunities God is giving us to “go and do likewise.”
Who is on your Jericho Road today?
Oh Jen that’s so awesome! funny because I could have written this post myself on many a DMV outing in my life brought tears to my eyes even;). I’m the queen of gab everywhere I go and my husband will never understand why I can talk to people anywhere about anything!
I told him look around and you will share Jesus Christ with your entire community if you will stop and notice people.. as Jesus did, and still does.. thank you for your hospitality in all your efforts and your sharing. blessings ‼️
This is very encouraging for me to step beyond my four walls (literally and figuratively) and see “Who is on my Jericho Road today.” Love your insight and to see the opportunity God made by your “yes.”
Thank you Jesus for those nudges \0/
….and Thank you Jen for sharing. I admit I am not tech-y! You were a true blessing that day….
Hi Jen……Loved this devotion today. I live in a senior facility as I am 77 years old and my now ex lives in another facility with violent dementia where he tried to kill me as he would not take the medications and he would not stop drinking. Frankly, I think he was an alchoholic as well. My son would not help me and there was no one else I could turn to. I really liked your words today as I just began doing exactly what you did at the DMV. This place is supposed to be Independent Living, but it is anything but. As long as you have the money, you are in. We have many people that should not be here, but somewhere else where they get the care they need. We have no such thing here. I am by nature a person that has always helped others that seemed to be struggling, but this facility has people that present a challenge. I love your words, “the Jericho Road”. I will just give you one example of what I did that was really much like you did. There is a man here that has real mental problems and I happened to meet him the second day he was here when I was leaving my apartment and I saw him standing there and he looked very lost. I asked him if I could help. Well, this first time he wanted to come into my room since he thought I was single. We do not do this here as there have been incidents of not so nice experiences, but I did tell him I was still married at the time, but how could I help him that day. He said he could not find his room so after some more conversation, I led him there and told him what to do if it happened again. I thought that was the end of it, but come to find out that he was Vietnam veteran that something happened there. He had been thrown out of 2 VA hospitals due to his behavior. He smokes a cigarette every 7 minutes, drinks alot in his room which is not really allowed here and walks around with his pants so far down you can see what we don’t want to see. Everyone including me avoided him at all costs. Getting into the elevator was even something that we all avoided as he smelled so bad of tobacco and booze and other things I cannot say. Yesterday I saw him sitting in the Atrium waiting for the mailman so I asked him if anything was wrong. He told me a long story about what it was and asked me if I knew anything he could take. A little tricky here, but I asked him if he had ibuprophin in his room and he did. He asked me how many should he take? I wasn’t going to give him an answer to that as I didn’t know his medical problems, but I said, look at the bottle and see what they suggest or call your sister and ask her. He actually thanked me and told me to have a good day. WOW, I surprised myself as you did that I even talked to him, but Jen, I felt so much better after I did it. I am sure that my Holy Spirit nudged me in his direction. Today, at lunch I have a bag of great candy that I am giving to a table of 4 women, one of them will be 100 in November, as I stopped yesterday and talked to them and they were first not saying much, but as I went on, they seemed to like the connection. It is hard to do this where there are 100 residents. You can’t possibly talk to all of them. I will give these women the candy when I go down to lunch today and stop by their table for a chat. I know they will be surprised, but this is how I try and make people here a little happier as this is not a happy place for anyone. Thank you Jen for your devotion as it has encouraged me and also gave me the confidence that I was doing the right thing. That helps me so much as all of you (in)courage women have done for me since I found you. I send you my love and hope you have a blessed rest of the week…………Betsy Basile
Thank you, Jen! What a great reminder about who we are and how God leads us!
Thank you Jen! Had a laugh out loud moment reading this! I love those nudges from the Holy Spirit. Hugs and prayers ❤️
I love this devotion and it echoes the words that we share each Sunday morning before the benediction:
“You go nowhere by accident. Wherever you go, God is sending you. Wherever you are, God has put you there. God has a purpose in your being there. Christ lives in you and has something he wants to do through you where you are. Believe this and go in the grace and love and power of Jesus Christ.”
This was the benediction often spoken over the Senate by Rev. Richard Halverson, who served as chaplain of the US Senate 1981-1994.
The Lord leads us daily and we can make a difference wherever we go, if we remember He is guiding and equipping us to do His good in the world!
Great reminder to just be where we are and support and notice what’s and who is around us. It can all make an impact. Look up and forward.
This is what I needed to hear. As an introvert learning to die to herself, I have a hard time listening to some social nudges, but this opened my eyes to a new perspective thank you very much! God bless you. Do you have anything I could be praying for. I’d be happy to!
Lola