I meet God at Walmart.
Like the day I was blocking the cheese aisle, my toddler dangling his feet from the wire basket of my unwieldy cart. I apologized to the elderly woman waiting to pass through. Robed in a trench coat, mouth hidden under a mask, she looked at me and said something like, “Galatians chapter five, verse twenty-two . . . patience. We’ve got to live it out.” Her throat opened a portal from the heavens and in her voice, I heard the rhythms of a place where there is no rush because there is no time. “Amen,” I said as she stepped past, elegant and slow as if she was walking down the aisle towards the doors of some sudden sanctuary.
God comes to Aldi, too. Lately, my son has been testing the limits of his nascent autonomy. He is fond of saying No . . . his wide, walnut eyes meeting mine in challenge. My husband and I have begun to discuss the shape of discipline — a necessary parental labor I dread. Nevertheless, in the produce section, amidst the carrots and Brussels sprouts, a middle-aged man struck up a conversation with me about — of all things — discipline. “We have to chastise our kids for their good,” he said.
I replied to the man that I had just been reading about discipline in Proverbs. He then quoted: “Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” Days ago, I’d read that same verse. I tried to quote it with him, but he finished before I could overcome my wonder.
I was stunned. Just that morning, as our son stood whining by the breakfast table, my husband mentioned how we’d need to start giving time-outs . . . or something. Anything to guide our son’s growing, often misguided sense of independence. That morning, I’d told my husband it would be good to ask for advice. And, just like that, God’s kind, present shepherding brought us the truth we needed to hear.
God meets my husband at Walmart, too. Once, my husband popped in for juice and milk while I waited in the parking lot with our son. After an unusually long wait, he finally returned. “I have an incredible story to tell,” he said.
“I believe it!” I replied. “God works at Walmart.”
By now, I know those blue vestments sometimes hide incognito angels. My husband shared how he’d been waiting in line, and an associate in a blue apron told him to move to another line. While waiting, he and the man in front of him began to chat. About jazz, about God. My husband noticed the man was holding bandages and other medical items. When the man arrived at the cash register, my husband overheard how his card couldn’t cover everything he needed. The man told the cashier he would put some of the items back, but my husband stepped in to pay the difference. Joyously surprised, the man gave my husband a blessing.
Later in the car, we talked about the uncanny precision of it all: how before our Walmart trip my husband had picked me up from an event that had ended earlier than anticipated, which allowed us to arrive at Walmart at just the right time. We talked about how my husband was moved to another line for no apparent reason, and how God so loved the man holding an armload of balms — a man seeking to assuage unnamed pains — that He placed a fellow brother there to meet his needs . . . and that God so loved my husband that He would allow him to be, and to receive, a blessing.
God meets us at Walmart, which is to say, God meets us in our ordinary everydays. He is beautifully and incomprehensibly weaving through our daily lives, appearing in trench coats and masked faces, in Aldi’s fresh produce section, and in Walmart’s interminable lines. In car rides to school and work. In the middle of shoe-shopping or dishwashing or onion-dicing. The divine flashes in a grandeur so subtle we’re likely to miss it.
And most often I do. Most often, I’m so focused on my drive to work that I miss the violet and clementine tableau of sunrise. Most often, I’m rushing to cram my son’s sneakers on his feet and miss the glory of being near this once-in-a-universe soul birthed from my body. But I still try to be on the lookout. I am trying, by grace, to open my eyes to see the hidden workings of God.
And, oh, there is so much good to see.
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Ruth Mills says
Just this week our phone number showed up on a lady’s phone as a missed call. She dialed our number to find out who’d called her & why. We quickly figured out it was a phone glitch & I apologized for technology disturbing her. She graciously said her phone simply knew she needed to call to tell me “God Bless you”. Yes we all need His blessings & we can be that blessing to others even in Walmart or phone glitches! Blessings (((0)))
Lynne Molyneaux says
Love this!
Alisa says
God meets us with the custodial staff at my school-as I was leaving one day I heard two of them talking and about the need to pray -one is in his 20’s the other much older-as I passed I said AMEN! -it made my day to know fellow believers are all around!
Denise says
Wonderful reminder to start the day. Thank you.
Kathy Francescon says
I was in Walmart looking at candles and another younger girl strolled up to look also. She mentioned she had just lost her mom and wanted a few new things for her new apartment. But she choked up and tears fell down her cheeks. As it turned out, I had lost my mom a short time ago too, so both of us hugged and cried, grieving together for the moms we lost and still missed so much. I never knew her name, but I will never forget our tears, our pain in trying to move forward without our moms. I knew it was God, that brought us together to share our tears and a hug right in the middle of the candle isle! God sends us love and comfort in so many ways and unexpected places. Praise His Holy Name!
Brenda M. Russell says
Okay, I love to see children being obedient to their parents. My Grandmother taught me that God Loves Obedience ! And Obedience brings Blessings from God. Amen.
My children are not perfect. I am not perfect. I serve an Awesome God Who Is All Knowing And All Powerful. I truly believe that God Knows me and Cares About Everything About My Life And All Those In My Life.
My Mother and Grandmother taught me to discipline my children with kindness, words of encouragement and instruction and lastly by the switch.
Now, I realize the love I feel for my children is meant to remind me that my Heavenly Father Loves Me And His Word is my Discipline.
Enjoy your day.
Brenda
Your Sister in Christ
Amada (pronounced: a.m.a.TH.a) says
AMEN!
Jill says
Wow, what beautiful words that could not be more true. Yesterday was a stressful day for me. My husband is having some health issues, and I got caught up in worry and the dailyness of life. This morning as I walked out to get the paper (yes, I still get a paper), a beautiful, strong Mississippi Kite flew over my house. And then as I walked back up my driveway, I noticed my Bridal Wreath Spirea has the tiniest green buds all over it. I was afraid I had lost them in our unusually cold weather a few weeks ago, but here they are budding out. God showed up this morning and showed me his beauty. Elise, thank you for your words this morning – I needed them.
Susen says
I can see by all the touching comments how much sharing your story has personally connected with many of us. Your story proves nothing, imo, is a coincidence but a God’s instance or a Godwink
Irene says
Elise, all these words put together in your own special way, are wonderful! Thank you!
Forest says
God certainly meets us in our everydays. Thank you my sister in sharing this with us. To God Be All The Glory!
Susan says
Beautiful writings. Sometimes God shows up in a post on this site. Thank you all!
Nida says
Amen! My sentiments as well. T
Debbie says
Lovely reminder!
Stacie Knable-Crook says
Love this! 🙂
Beth Williams says
Elsie,
The title of this post intrigued me. You hit the nail on the head when you said God meets us in our ordinary everyday lives. We have to slow down long enough to see it. I was visiting my dad at the assisted living. He was trying to eat lunch but hands trembling to much. I offered to feed him & he nodded yes. The man to the right of us said “You will get stars in your crown for this”. If that wasn’t God saying “I see you.” Fast forward a few years & I was working part time in hospital. Had been praying for full time job. God heard me & the department wrote a job just.for.me. The duties changed & I didn’t like the work. Here comes Jesus once again. Another position opens up that uses my skills & talents. Sure enough He gave it to me. God rewards us for our good deeds & meets us in ordinary places.
Blessings 🙂
Lisa Wilt says
I love this! God provides wow God moments in the midst of our days. I call them shining windows of wonder!
Ingrid says
Such beautiful God winks….everyday, all over our lives. Thank you for sharing ladies, it is inspiring.
Chris D. says
I’m in tears…. Such amazing, wonderful, yet simple lessons. Now I’ll always be aware of others & their needs. We are all here to help lift one another… to love one another. Amen.
Mary says
Absolutely, 100%, just be aware. Sometimes it is in answer to our need, sometimes we are missioned to be the answer to a prayer by others. I read a statement, not long ago, that said: “in that moment, he was Jesus for me.“
I often asked for help and either someone comes along, or I am given the strength to get through it on my own. One example that I will never forget… I was in Costco and trying to lift something heavy. No one was around and I asked God for help; suddenly, around the corner of the aisle came a little, wizen, old gentleman. He looked up, said: No, no, Dear, don’t lift that, let me get that for you.” He was smaller than I am, and looked as if a strong wind would blow him over. He picked it up as if it weighed nothing and put it in my cart. I looked at him in amazement and said “I just prayed for you.” He looked at me and smiled and said, “and here I am.” We laughed at each other, because…I think we both knew.