A few weeks ago, our part of the world was hit with subzero temperatures – the kind of temps that had my friends posting memes that said things like, “Why do I live where the air hurts my face?”
It was a cold snap that kept most of us indoors, unless absolutely necessary.
But at 8:28 a.m. on a brutally cold day, I made an exception to the unwritten winter rules. I put on boots, a hat, a thick winter coat, and – because the snow was so bright – my sunglasses.
Why, you ask?
For the sake of beauty.
For the last three years, I have become something of a winter evangelist – uncovering and proclaiming the gifts that are hidden in a season that is typically easier to hate than to love.
I don’t know who said it, but it’s true: “If you choose not to find joy in the snow, you will have less joy in your life but still the same amount of snow.”
Our neighbors are well aware of my obsession with winter, and so they texted that morning, “Look outside. It’s a sundog.”
In case you’re wondering, a sundog is an atmospheric phenomenon. It appears as spots of light on either side of the sun, caused by the sunlight refracting off ice crystals in the atmosphere. Sundogs can happen anywhere and any time of year, but they are most common on very cold days.
Sundogs are dazzling – like a halo of light, like a gift of God, like a reminder that there is still beauty to be found even on the coldest kind of day.
So for two minutes, on the most frigid morning of the year, I stood outside and beheld the beauty. I did it, because I needed to remind myself that winters aren’t just for the biting, stinging, icy things. They are also for the dazzling, lit-up, splendid things.
We all need that reminder, and I don’t mean primarily for the winter seasons that happen outside our door – but for the winter seasons that happen inside of our hearts and homes. In life, our very souls shiver inside the iceboxes of disappointment and despair. We would prefer to live in the warmth and light of spring and summer, or the fruitful seasons of autumn harvest. But lo, we find ourselves in the bleak midwinter, when frosty wind moans and water’s like a stone.
Two days ago marked what is known as Blue Monday, the third Monday in January. It’s recognized as the most depressing day of the year for a variety of reasons. Christmas is long over, with its twinkling lights, good food, and fun. It’s dark, dark, dark. Well-intentioned resolutions are already out the window. And sometimes? Well, sometimes, it feels like a lot of work to simply get out of bed.
I have felt all of those things in the bleak midwinter. Yet, it is clear that we don’t get a pass from winter.
In fact, God created literal winter, placing it in a natural life-cycle system that moves through four seasons. Each season is part of God’s plan to maintain our earth.
Winters are not an accident. Winters are not a punishment. Winters are intentional.
God Himself “set the boundaries of the earth, and … made both summer and winter” (Psalm 74:17, NLT).
So what, then, are we to do in the unavoidable winter seasons of the soul?
In my ongoing exploration of winter, I have contemplated an intriguing fact. Winter is not only a noun. It’s a verb. And winter as a verb compels us to ask ourselves: What does it mean “to winter,” and how can we do it well?
The Apostle Paul wintered. He wintered because he knew it was unsafe to travel by ship. He planned ahead, knowing winter would come. “For I have determined there to winter” (Titus 3:12, KJV).
In one such wintering, Paul spent months on an island where he encountered people who were unusually kind. They built a fire and welcomed him because it was so cold (Acts 28:2). A lot of rest and healing happened during his wintering time. Isn’t that a beautiful thing?
Paul’s wintering seasons gave him three key gifts: safe harbor, opportunities to share Jesus in a different kind of way, and moments of abiding with others.
You may not live in a part of the world where the air hurts your face, but there’s little doubt you will go through figurative winters as you move through life. Instead of figuring out how to escape cold seasons, perhaps we can learn how to winter well within them.
To see winter seasons as safe harbors.
To encounter Jesus in unexpected ways.
To gather around cozy fires.
To abide.
And, perhaps, to look to the skies and find a dazzling surprise, shining like a sundog on the eastern horizon.
B says
I love this. I love winter, I live in a place where sometimes, the air hurts your face. I can’t tell you why I love the winter so much, but bring on the snow, ice, cold… Reasons to slow down, take it in, bundle up and enjoy that beautiful gift.
Jennifer Dukes Lee says
We are about to get hit with yet another winter storm, and it’s quite possible that this storm will disrupt our travel plans to Mexico. So I am being given the opportunity to practice what I preach about winter! It certainly is an opportunity to let go of control and surrender our plans to God. Thanks for being here!
Connie Burkett says
I am not a fan of winter but I too love winter days where I get out and walk and see nature. I praise God for the season even though it is not my favorite. Winter has taught me that it is a slowing down season to rest and reflect as you watch the snow fal and the cold winds blow. I praise God as I see Him in nature even in the cold months of winter. Thank you for your reflection.
Ruth Mills says
Living in the midlands of SC our idea of winter is 3-5 days of temps in the 30s. We rarely get the fun snow just the messy dangerous ice & freezing rain. And we “freeze” when it gets down to 50. Yet we have enough swing in temps to label the changing of seasons. “Winter well” what a great principle! Every season is a gift. May we have eyes to see God’s splendor in each of them! Stay warm, Jennifer. Thanks for your encouragement!
Jennifer Dukes Lee says
Oh that freezing rain is dangerous, isn’t it? Sometimes, winter is best enjoyed INSIDE the house. 🙂
Ariel Krienke says
This is such a great reminder and encouragement. We live in Minnesota and it can get so very bitter cold here and yet the Lord God always provides. I’m so blessed to have the warmth of the Lord’s love in my life. Thank you for your kindness in encouraging us daily.
Jennifer Dukes Lee says
Well, hello neighbor! Where in Minnesota? I’m tucked up in the northwest corner of Iowa, about 15 miles south of the Iowa-Minnesota border. I love your state! Stay safe out there. We’ve got another storm coming, as I’m sure you’re well aware.
Gail says
I love this too. I do live in Michigan where we have real winter, and I love the beauty of the snow, but at this stage of life I enjoy looking at it from the warmth of the inside more than being out in it. I used to love getting bundled up and getting out there. It still feels good if the wind is not too harsh – for a little while. I also like that winters give us a chance to slow down a bit.
I’m retired now and I’m working on learning how to accept and winter well through this stage of life, not just the weather, but the life changes. I love the description of how Paul used his winter. So beautiful to be who God made us to be wherever we are and in every season. Thank you!
Jennifer Dukes Lee says
You have such a great attitude about the life-winters that we all face. Thanks for sharing your perspective, Gail.
Madeline says
I love winter. I love the snow and the sparking crystals when the sun shines on the snow. I love to find animal paw prints after a snowfall. I live in Maine and, for a few years, in Colorado. I get it! I have a very wise friend who once told me that brutally cold weather and snowstorms are God’s way to remind us to stop, slow down, be still and quiet. This is the perfect time for reflection on God’s creation and for taking care of myself spiritually. As I looked up while writing this, I saw the wild turkeys running through the woods behind my home, made much easier with all the leaves gone.
I appreciate knowing there are others out there like me who cherish this season. After all, if it is something God created, how bad could it be? Thank you Jennifer!
Jennifer Dukes Lee says
This line, Madeline! “If it is something God created, how bad could it be?” How I love that! Thank you so much for sharing your perspective. I, too, am seeing so much wildlife and their tracks in the snow. From my window, most days, I see pheasants, bunnies, and deer.
Nancy Peters says
Wow- absolutely beautiful! I have just forwarded this blog to a friend- I know your words will bring peace to her heart! I am going to print your devotional- to reread when my days are cold. Gods blessings upon blessings to you!
Jennifer Dukes Lee says
So glad this spoke to you, Nancy! Thanks for forwarding to your friend.
Irene says
This is beautiful, Jennifer! I live on the Oregon coast. We don’t get much snow or cold temperatures here. But lots of rainy, dark days in the winter! I will try to glean the “sparkle” in these days. Thank you!
Jennifer Dukes Lee says
Gleaning the sparkle with you, Irene! I love that.
kimmie says
We live in Indiana. Far enough from Lake Michigan to miss the lake effect. I just journaled how I was surprisingly disappointed that we haven’t had a really good lockdown, stuck together, not going anywhere snow. Just to make us all stop and rest.
Dawn Ferguson-Little says
Jennifer thank you for what you wrote. We have a Good who made the heavens and the earth. Plus stars that shine at night all the weather. But you know I pray for them that are out in the cold that are homeless. When I have roof over my head. We that are fortunate to have roof over our heads can look out at the cold bad weather were we live. Thank God we are nice and warm and not out in cold like the homeless. That God woke us but to enjoy another day in his beautiful world. No matter what the weather doing out side. I say Amen to that. Thank you again for this brilliant reading Jennifer. Even though in Northern Ireland we don’t get as bad weather as were you live. But we do get snow and ice. But nothing as I said as bad as were you live. I thank full on God for that Love Dawn Ferguson-Little xx
Dawn Ferguson-Little says
Jennifer thank you for what you wrote. We have a Good who made the heavens and the earth. Plus stars that shine at night all the weather. But you know I pray for them that are out in the cold that are homeless. When I have roof over my head. We that are fortunate to have roof over our heads can look out at the cold bad weather were we live. Thank God we are nice and warm and not out in cold like the homeless. No matter what the weather doing out side. I say Amen to that. Thank you again for this brilliant reading Jennifer. Even though in Northern Ireland we don’t get as bad weather as were you live. But we do get snow and ice. But nothing as I said as bad as were you live. I thank full on God for that Love Dawn Ferguson-Little xx
Mary says
Happy Wednesday Jennifer. I live in the Midwest where winter cold hurts my face at times. I do enjoy the warm comforts of a fire, comfy pj’s and cute fussy socks.
Hope you stay warm and your Mexico trip goes forward. Thank you for your beautiful devotion. ❤ Mary
Jen says
LOVE THIS!!!
Mary Bender says
Totally enjoyed listening to this podcast. Intentional winter….planned by God…what a beautiful reminder to find the beauty and purpose of it!!
Jennifer Dukes Lee says
Hi Mary! Thanks for listening to the podcast! We love knowing that people are listening in.
ELMorehead says
I’d never heard the following statement before. “If you choose not to find joy in the snow, you will have less joy in your life but still the same amount of snow.” But it’s so True!
I ❤️❤️❤️ Winter; it’s my favorite season. One reason is clothes. In Summer/when I’m Hot, I can only take a limited amount of my clothes off to Cool Off, & be Decent. But in Winter/when I’m Cold, I can keep adding another layer of clothes or blankets. I’m always Decently clothed.
Becky says
I love the winter. I live where the temperatures sometimes don’t get above 10 degrees for days and days. I love putting on winter gear and going outside for a walk, even in windchills that are at -50*. There is something about the biting wind on my face, the crunching snow under my feet that is invigorating. I actually hate summer. Yes, most people don’t understand that. It’s just how I was created. I love the slowness of winter, staying home, reading, baking. All the things that the summer doesn’t always allow. There is also something much more cozy about walking into a warm house from the cold than walking into a cold house from the heat.
Beth Williams says
Stephanie,
Winter is God’s way of slowing us down a bit after the rush & fun of holidays. Currently wintering in my heart & trying to find ways to winter well. Going to stay positive & look for ALL the good & wonderful things God has blessed me with including a nice sunny day.
Blessings 🙂