I grew up in California, very used to gentle weather. One year, we had a series of storms, and I’d seen heavy rain and lightning so few times in my young life that I hid under the couch cushions because it was all so overwhelming. When I got older and went to college, I moved to Chicago and learned that weather is a whole dang thing. Still, my school was connected by underground tunnels and I didn’t have to shovel anything, so I didn’t know that the true winter experience was on its way.
For graduate school, I moved to the place I now reside, just north of Boston, Massachusetts. I quickly learned about what great cardio it was to shovel snow, and if you want to leave at noon, you’d better walk out the door at 11:30 to start digging. At first, it was a novelty, and I do have to confess I love shoveling. But that’s mostly because my porch is small and my parking place is for just one car.
It’s been a fairly mild winter, but last week we got our first storm that dropped just over a foot of snow. It doesn’t sound like a ton, but when there’s a foot of snow everywhere, it can add up quickly. A post went out on my church Facebook page asking for help shoveling. This wasn’t just a porch or a parking spot. This covered doorways and sidewalks and the places the plows had missed.
Two volunteers took snowblowers and started bigger projects, but anything with stairs or narrow spaces needed the good, old-fashioned shovel. Myself and another friend moved from place to place, shoveling heavy loads anywhere we could put it as it continued to come down on us.
It was fun for a while, but then I started thinking: I wanted to stop. I wanted to be done. I wanted to hide around a corner and drink hot chocolate. But there weren’t many of us, and it was getting dark. My heart wanted to make excuses and talk my way out of putting my hand to the work we needed to get done. And then I recalled the people who would be there in another day or two trying to go to church.
They needed access to the building. If you leave snow, it starts to melt, and then cold temperatures turn it to ice. So after we shoveled, we put down a layer of salt to prevent it from being too dangerous. It brings a new understanding to the phrase, “You are the salt of the earth.” Without the salt, we’re all going to end up a meme of someone sliding down the sidewalk with a caption, like “Me tryin’ to get thru 2022.”
I have a complicated relationship with my church. I’ve hurt others, and they’ve hurt me. I’ve been misunderstood and cried over disagreements, but we always come back and talk it out and do what we can to live at peace with one another. We are human beings looking for the grace of God in the face of one another, and the only way we’re going to work things out is to work together.
So I shoveled. We shoveled. To clear a path and to love those who probably wouldn’t even notice our work if we did it well because the sidewalks would look fine. And that’s what we as the local church are called to do. We keep showing up in our messiness. We keep serving and celebrating. We keep ironing out the wrinkles. We clear the way and make room for one another to come home. After all, at the end of the day, we belong to Christ — and each other.
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Ruth Mills says
The image of shoveling a welcome & then salting it to keep it clear had me thinking, we offer grace to welcome people in & we continue with compassion & forgiveness to keep the path safe. We get the bonus benefits of relationships with others who need that welcome as we clear their path toward Jesus. Let us be salt! Thanks for your inspiring post!
Cory says
I love that. Thanks for sharing!
Melissa Zaldivar says
Yes and amen, Ruth!
Madeline says
Growing up in the northeast and living in Maine for almost 25 years, I know about the endless shoveling and walking over to help shovel out the church. However, I never thought about the salting part and the connection you make. I always enjoyed being outside watching as neighbors and the plows driven the folks from my small town drive by and wave, and sometimes stop to chat. It was a real sense of togetherness. I will keep this in mind as I head over early to church this morning after having a “snow event” and help clear up with others from my small church. I am in Colorado now, and live in a condo, so no shoveling except my patio and car and honestly miss it. And I look forward to slating the path to worship.
Melissa Zaldivar says
A true Mainer knows this all too well. Thanks for reading!
Irene says
Melissa, well done! An act of kindness with no reward, other than knowing you were helping others. I like it. I will try to go and do likewise.
Beth Williams says
Melissa,
I grew up outside Tampa, FL, so not much snow. Moved to Harrisonburg, VA for college. That town is in a valley surrounded by mountains. That year we had a blizzard that put tons of snow on the ground. There was no church that Sunday. My neighbor had left over pizza from the Super bowl party. She had me come with her to the nursing home across the street to feed the workers-they were working a second shift in a row as not many people could get there. We also stayed & helped out some. It was preaching the gospel without using words. Showing mercy to those who needed it most.
Blessings 🙂
Melissa Zaldivar says
Love this story. Enjoy your warmth!
Becky Keife says
Melissa, you transported me to a winter scene I’ve never known, but my heart resonates with the call to pick up my shovel for the sake of others. Thank you, friend.
Melissa Zaldivar says
Thanks, friend!
Brenda M. Russell says
Oh my goodness, what a beautiful reminder on a very cold Sunday morning. Thank you for sharing your story. It’s certainly true and I am guilty sometimes of saying yes and quickly getting tired of my commitment. It’s not easy to feel good about quitting before the job is done.
We look forward to new believers accepting Christ as their Lord and Savior. So, we have to put on our thinking caps: how undone were you? How much love and forgiveness were you offered. So, let’s give the same to others. Let’s help to prepare a soft place of hospitality for someone to land.
Keep up the great work no matter how you feel. Thank you for sharing yourself with others. Being a Disciple is wonderful, remember who our teacher is, God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit. Allow space for others to grow, God is the Gardener.
Have a wonderful day.
Brenda
Melissa Zaldivar says
God is the Gardener–I love that! Thanks for reading along, Brenda.
Margo Ennis says
Perfect follow-up to a sermon today at our church on serving. Loved how you gently handled the grace of invisibility as servant. Bless your efforts.
Melissa Zaldivar says
I love when a sermon lines up with what we’re writing about. Thank you for being here in this community!
ELMorehead says
We clear the way and make room for one another to come home. I like that sentence. It reminds me of not only how the Church/Body of Christ functions, but how we are to function to the unsaved world…one plows, one plants, one Waters, one fertilizes, one removes weeds, one harvests! If we don’t clear the way, it makes it much harder for the unsaved to come Home to Jesus!
Laura Gee says
Thank you for this reminder that it’s not about others noticing but our heart towards living God and others. We ALWAYS have something to be grateful for. ❤️
kimmieg says
Wow! Yep. Totally needed to read this. We have some messiness at our church that needs God’s healing majorly.