I enjoy my coffee without cream, without sugar, and most importantly, without caffeine. That’s because if I consume caffeine, I’m doomed to lie awake in bed until the early morning hours, as alert as an unblinking baby doll. Decaf is essential.
Though it’s a simple pleasure, the comfort of a quiet cup of coffee has become one of the highlights of my day. So when the grocery store ran out of my preferred blend, my disappointment was acute. Several times over the following weeks, I checked the store to see if they had re-stocked. Each time, I hurried to the coffee aisle practically holding my breath with expectation, only to be taunted by rows of empty bulk bins set in stern lines.
Finally, on one desperate visit, I found an employee. She was a tiny sparrow of a woman with short, black hair and gentle, dark eyes. She explained that they were out of every variety of that specific brand of coffee, but when I mentioned that I was looking for decaf, she said, “I have a bag of French roast decaf in the back if you want it.”
My heart fluttered with surprise — French roast is my favorite!
“That would be great!” I answered.
She left to retrieve the coffee, and when she reappeared a few minutes later, she was carrying an enormous five pound bag of coffee beans, plus a generous coupon!
In that moment, I felt as if God gave me a big kiss and said, “Here, sweetheart, have some coffee.” My heart swelled with a sense of being intimately loved, noticed, and nurtured. I walked out of the store with an irrepressible grin stretched across my face.
That evening, as I inhaled the aroma of brewing coffee, this thought swirled through my mind: God cares about the little things.
Mingled with that thought was the apostle Paul’s prayer for the Ephesians: “May [you] have power, together with all the Lord’s holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ . . . who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us” (3:18, 20 NIV).
Though it might sound silly, receiving a five pound bag of coffee was beyond what I had imagined. It never occurred to me to ask for such an extravagantly simple gift. Sometimes it’s easier to ask God for big things than for little things — things that we more obviously need, like a new car, money for a household repair, or healing for our bodies. Like my coffee, we may not consider that God would care, let alone, answer small prayers.
Why is this?
Perhaps because God is so big, we feel deep down that our concern must be big in order to warrant His attention. But by not asking, we reveal our true belief: that He doesn’t actually care about the little things. Sharing the details of our lives — our struggles, needs, fears, hopes, and joys — with someone indicates intimacy and a belief that that person cares about these things. My husband, Paul, knew all about my coffee quandary. I told him because he’s an integral part of my life, and I know he cares about my everyday concerns.
Sadly, too often I give my human relationships more credit than I give God. Even more than a loving husband, tender parent, or loyal friend, God wants to hear about — and help — with the details. My experience with the coffee was both a reminder and an invitation from God: Ask. Imagine. Believe. Stretch your imagination to extremes — trust for mighty moves, as well as miniature miracles. I love you, and I want to show you that in big and small ways.
I’m all for dreaming big and expecting great things from God — things bigger than I can imagine, but maybe it’s time to stretch our imaginations in the other direction. Maybe it’s time to start dreaming small and develop the courage to believe God really does want to be intimately involved in our day-to-day life.
Jesus said, “Ask, and it will be given to you” (Luke 11:9 NIV), and He always keeps His promises. Ask Him to show you His love in the little things and trust that He will answer.
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Peggy says
Carina,
Thanks for the reminder that God listens to us, loves us, and doesn’t need a tragedy, to hear and answer prayers!
Carina Alanson says
Your welcome, Peggy! Thanks for reading! Blessings!
Dawn Ferguson-Little says
It is the same. God showed me over you Carina over the coffee you got more than you thought you would when you asked the shop assent that day. You where not affraid to ask about your brand of Coffee. Had they more coming in or more in the store. How often don’t we ask God for things he like us to ask for. God showed me something through your coffee where does the coffee come from. I said God it come from Coffee Beans. There are lots of coffee bean to make up a Jar of Coffee. Well God said Dawn one Coffee Bean that is picked from the Coffee plant could be me picking your unsaved and your unsaved Husband Family and saving them like the Coffee that you see in the coffee jar safe that you buy in shop to take home and make into a cup of coffee. It is safe. So I will if you trust me and keep praying like that coffee bean and all thoes beans that are your unsaved Family members and Husband unsaved Family that are not saved. Turn them like the coffee bean is turned into coffee turn them one day in my perfect timing into saved people for my kingdom. So don’t stop praying for them and don’t stop believing for them all. Like the Coffee beans are turned into coffee. I can turn your unsaved Family and your Husband unsaved Family to get Saved. I God will. KEEP BELIEVING. Love Dawn Ferguson-Little
Carina Alanson says
Wow, Dawn, thanks for reading and thank you so much for sharing this! It’s so beautiful how God spoke to you in this way as you read the article. Isn’t He so good? I love your faith and dedication to praying for your unsaved family members, and I am joining with you in praying that they will have life-changing encounters with God’s love and turn their hearts toward Him. He takes the raw material of our lives and turns it into something beautiful. Blessings!
Beth Williams says
Carina,
Our society is focused on dreaming big dreams. Doing, achieving & having more. We believe that God can help us with those dreams. It is the mundane trials of everyday life that we struggle alone. Thinking we must handle them ourselves. God says to come to Him with everything. Nothing is to small for Him to handle. Children have a test you’re worried about, what to make for dinner, your drive to work, what college to attend & major pray about it all. He cares about us so much. Next time you want something no matter how trivial you think it is pray to God about it. He just might surprise you with more than you expected.
Blessings 🙂
Carina Alanson says
It’s so true! Thank you so much for reading and sharing your thoughts, Beth! Blessings!
Maura Michael says
What a wonderful essay. I often think I can’t “bother” God with small things. But that is me putting Him in a box where he doesn’t belong. Small moments are all that life is about. Lord, open my heart so that I can share all my moments with you.
Carina Alanson says
Thank you, Maura, and thank you so much for reading and sharing your thoughts. Your prayer, “Lord, open my heart so that I can share all my moments with you,” is my heart’s prayer too! Blessings!
Heather P. says
What a wonderful example to illustrate such an important lesson about God, thank you!
Carina Alanson says
Thank you, Heather! Blessings!
Rachel D says
I love this! It reminds me of what a pastor I sat under once said when preaching on Philippians 4:6. “The real question isn’t whether anything is too small to pray about. The real question is whether any of it ISN’T small to God!” Even though some problems seem big to us, they aren’t big to Him, and as you said, He cares about every facet of our lives.
Carina Alanson says
So glad this resonated with you, Rachel! So true, even the problems that seem big to us are small to God. I was just reading Zechariah 8:6 this morning where God says, “This seems unbelievable to you—a remnant, small, discouraged as you are—but it is no great thing for me. ” Such an encouraging thing to remember! Blessings!
Katie Teesdale says
Thank you for sharing these beautiful words and reminder. I tend to forget this, especially when worry grips my mind.
Carina Alanson says
Thank you, Katie, you are so welcome! I know I certainly need the reminder myself on an ongoing basis as well! Blessings!
Trista says
I already believe that God cares about the small things, but it’s so good just to stop and think about that this morning. Thanks Carina!
Carina Alanson says
You’re so welcome, Trista! Thank you for reading and your encouragement!
Margy Southern says
Thanks Carina, all the way from South Africa
I so enjoy your writings & your timely reminders of many different things, especially that our God really does want to be included in every part of our lives – how blessed are we to have such an intimate relationship with the God of the universe.All praise to Jesus, our King of Kings.
Love & blessings.
Carina Alanson says
Hello Margy!
Thank you so much, I’m so glad that you’ve been enjoying my writings. God is so good, and what you said is so true, we are so blessed to have relationship with Him! I hope you’re keeping safe, healthy, and at peace over in South Africa!
Sending love and blessing from Alaska,
Carina