I face it every day.
I’m often ashamed of my fear. I’ve been a church-going girl for most of my life so I know that again and again in the Bible God told His children not to be afraid.
From Elijah to David, from Isaiah to Jeremiah, God continuously reminded His people not to fear.
When Joseph considered canceling his engagement to Mary, an angel appeared to him telling him not to be afraid (Matthew 1:19-20). When Jesus charged the twelve disciples with their responsibility, He told them not to be afraid of those who would seek to harm them for proclaiming the truth (Matthew 10:26-28). From the women gathering at the empty tomb to the disciples seeing the resurrected Jesus, the message was the same: do not be afraid (Matthew 28:5, 10).
In every instance, people faced legitimate fears. But each time God’s message remained consistent.
It seems God understood that we would wrestle with fear.
During a particularly challenging and stressful season of work, I was wrestling with deep insecurities. Afraid that I wasn’t cut out for the level of leadership I held, my mind began spinning off multiple worst-case scenarios pricking all my greatest fears – fear of failing, fear of being fired, fear of not leading well, fear of making poor decisions, on and on it went.
As I lay in bed one night unable to sleep because of the speed at which my mind was racing, I shared my thoughts and feelings with my husband. He was shocked by the emotional load I was carrying. I was amazed at how freeing it was to verbalize my fears. I didn’t realize how lonely and isolated I was by wallowing in those fears by myself. Giving voice to them allowed me to share the burden and more importantly, my husband had the opportunity to speak truth to the isolation that fear dangerously creates.
We know how fear affects us. We acknowledge the darkness, isolation, and inactivity that accompany it, but how do we overcome it?
We read all the “do not be afraid” scriptures and are more likely to feel guilt for not having the faith to overcome it than find peace in those statements.
But take another look at every time God says, “Do not be afraid.” Notice that His message doesn’t end there. Behind every statement He gives us a reason why we shouldn’t fear. He knew that our fears need to be replaced with strong promises. We need to replace fear with truth. Listen to the statements of truth that followed, “Do not be afraid…”
I am your shield, your very great reward. (Genesis 15:1)
God has heard. (Genesis 21:17)
For I am with you. (Isaiah 41:10)
For the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go. (Joshua 1:9)
You have found favor with God. (Luke 1:30)
When we face fear, we must confront our fears with the truth, and that truth is the powerful reminder of God’s constant presence.
God doesn’t say, “Do not be afraid. You’ve got this!”
He says, “Do not be afraid. I’ve got this.”
That truth has the power to overcome all our fears.
Philippians 4:13 is such a familiar reminder that we almost miss it: “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” (NKJV)
Our ability is in His strength. God’s constant presence is the greater truth that confronts our fears.
Whatever fear you’re facing today, remember the truth that God’s got it. He is present and He is faithful.
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Jessica Lalley says
I have a dear sister in Christ who, just yesterday met with me and my daughter to speak Truth to her while she battles fear. What a blessing! She gave us a list of “Fear Not” Scriptures to do daily- that she is doing on notecards and then writing her specific fears on the back. Psalm 91 “you will not fear the terror of the night, nor the arrow that flies by day….if you make the Most High your dwelling, even the Lord who is my refuge-then no harm will befall you no disaster will come near your tent for he will command his angels concerning you to guard you in all your ways”
Fear…something I have lived my all life with. Today it’s still here. My sister and her two young adult kids are living with me and my mother. Everyday I come home to their friends at the house plauing basketball and hanging out until they’re ready to leave. If I say anything to them, my sister tells me that God wants us to show love to everyone and to draw souls to the kingdom. I know this but does that mean that I’m supposed to allow people to do whatever they want? Today, I thank you for this post beacause it is my confirmation from God. I’m always in fear of retaliation or rejection from my sister and her children, if they can’t have their way then your life will be miserable. What does it say about a person that uses the Word of God for their own selfish gain? I’m tired of living in fear and I refuse to do it anymore. it doesn’t matter whether I’m accepted or liked by the neighborhood kids or anyone else. Please don’t judge my decisions without understanding my reasons. I don’t believe that God wants us to live in fear and not speak up for what we believe in. Today, I will stand on faith and His Word!!
Gail Bertram says
🙂 Hi Janice. I soooo UNDERSTAND your Decisions and Reasons. Your Story was/is my story 🙁 & 🙂 Fear of Rejection from my adult daughter and grandkids. ***I don’t believe that God wants us to live in fear and not speak up for what we believe in. TODAY, I will stand on faith and His Word*** WITH you my sister <3 🙂
I love what you said…..”God does not say, Do not be afraid, you’ve got this……He says, Do not be afraid, I’ve got this!” Beautiful. Powerful. Just what I needed today.
“Our ability is in His strength.”
Thanks for the reminder that it’s not really about US. It’s all about HIM…and Him IN us.
Tracey Casciano says
I found this to be refreshing. Everything can be less scary if we remember that He is right there with us!
I don’t visit this site every day, but every day that I do visit there is always the message I need to hear the most on that very day…….thanks to all that contribute here and thanks to the hand that guides me here.
Needed this today.
This is a CONSTANT with me. I know what the bible says about fear but it is with me every single day. I just received a notice that I have to get an MRI for further testing after my mammogram. I am already having nightmares and worrying about a result I have no control over. I need to remember that GOD is WITH me and HE is ABLE but I don’t. Oh GOD please calm my anxiety and my heart.
Jenni Catron says
Praying for you Paulette!
Beth W says
I so agree with you on verbalizing your fears. For the past 1.5 years-mostly this year though, I’ve hated/dreaded my job. I would say a few things to my hubby about it, but not much.
This year after dealing with the stresses of my aging dad & issues that landed him in hospital and rehab I got the courage to just tell him all about it. Not just that I hate my job but some of the reasons behind it and my feelings. It was freeing.
My hubby also got iffy news this year. He actions were not normal and he did not say much at first. Then finally he told me about his fears and feelings. It was such a relief. I was finally able to understand him and some of his actions. We could pray together about our situations.
Verbalizing your fears to another can be so freeing. The two of you can pray about the situation and help each other out.
Kristin S says
“We read all the “do not be afraid” scriptures and are more likely to feel guilt for not having the faith to overcome it than find peace in those statements.” YES! 100%
Courtney Vinzant says
Thank you for writing this blog! It was great!