My mom was a DIYer and pro upcycler long before there was ever a corresponding television show or hashtag. In the 80s, our cooking utensils sat by the stove in a coffee can my mom spray painted cobalt blue. She also took an old windowpane door and added a fresh coat of white paint, four spindle legs, and a custom piece of glass to make a new kitchen table.

In fifth grade when I volunteered to be The Lonely Goatherd, Mom took a deep breath then went to work making a papier-mâché goat head from a mold of taped-together balloons — with zero Pinterest boards to guide her. (Best goat ever.)

But perhaps my favorite upcycling project my mom ever came up with was after we endured a massive house fire. After the flames were extinguished, the blackened backyard was a clean slate for fresh landscaping. However, a lean budget meant most of my mom’s suburban garden dreams had to be modified. Thankfully, where finances lacked, her endless creativity and ability to envision what no one else could, stepped in.

The back of the house was burned off, leaving a full-scale version of an open-air dollhouse. Given that the whole exterior had to be redone, it made sense to ditch the simple concrete stoop that led to the back door in favor of a larger wood deck. But concrete is expensive to demo and expensive to remove. Enter upcycler superhero. My mom came up with a plan to repurpose that cumbersome and unattractive concrete into a funky and functional stacked retaining wall that would serve as the structural frame of the yard.

For days the neighborhood buzzed with the piercing grind of a jackhammer. Once the stoop was reduced to makeshift stones, the noise stopped and the magic started. Mom sorted through the debris, painstakingly matching jagged paver to jagged paver.

From a pile of rubble, a retaining wall was formed that snaked its way around the perimeter of the yard. On the lower level, grass was planted — a beautiful yard for Easter egg hunts and summer cartwheels. Above the retaining wall was now dedicated space for fruit trees, plants, and flowers.  

Fast forward several years and the devastating smell of smoke and glow of dancing flames had vanished from memory. The charred earth and rubble had long been replaced by a flourishing lawn and established fruit trees. As a little girl, I ran barefoot across the concrete retaining wall, arms out like a tightrope walker. I imagined I was a world-class gymnast, leaping across a balance beam. I paused to bend down and pluck a red strawberry from its little patch. Juice still dripping down my chin, I then reached up and grabbed a ripe plum from its weighty branch. I rubbed the plum on my cutoff jeans, letting soft denim turn the purple fruit into a shiny orb of delight. I sat down on the jagged wall, sunbaked concrete warming my legs, toes resting in the cool grass, and I let the flavor of that perfect plum burst in my mouth.

Now, more than thirty years later, recalling a hundred moments just like that makes my heart burst with gratitude. Gratitude for the carefree wonder of childhood. But also gratitude for the backdrop birthed in my mom’s creativity, and the picture it gave me of God.

The Bible says we are created in God’s image. This means that as image bearers, we reflect what He is like. Whatever is good and trustworthy and redemptive about humanity is a reflection of God’s goodness. So as I celebrate my mom as a phenomenal upcycler, I find an invitation to ponder God’s nature and celebrate Him.

Consider this: a pile of broken concrete is not beautiful; it’s a burden. But, reimagined, that rubble becomes purposeful.

And new purpose births new beauty.

What was left over from a scorching fire that destroyed much of our beloved home, along with our joy and security, what was torn apart by the relentless blade of a jackhammer, what was ordinarily destined for a dumpster — my mom gave new life. And in doing so, she helped usher in a new season of life and joy for our family.

 My mom was a salvager, a creator, a broken-pieces redeemer. A new-story writer. And that is exactly who God is. God takes what is burned and busted up and makes it beautifully purposeful.

Romans 8:28 (CSB) says, “We know that all things work together for the good of those who love God, who are called according to his purpose.” Whether we are suffering through the blackened aftermath of our sin or wounds from the sins of others, whether we’re walking through chronic illness or anxiety, or enduring a season of depression or broken relationships, we can trust that God is not done writing our story.

We can trust that, in God’s loving, creative hands, any source of destruction can eventually be used to resurrect new life.

 

Listen to Becky’s devotion below or on your favorite podcast app.

 

Leave a Comment