Perhaps you’re having a day when you feel a little tired, when you’re struggling with aches in your bones or your heart. “What happened?” you might ask yourself, “I thought I was doing well.” And you are.
Things like growth, healing, and progress never happen as one continual climb. No, they come like waves. Victory, then struggle. Strength, then weariness. Success, then a setback. This isn’t a sign that you are falling behind. This is simply the natural rhythm of a human body and soul.
Jesus starts His ministry with a miracle at a wedding. He speaks powerfully and gains disciples. He has a well-known conversation with Nicodemus. Then He leaves town and we’re told this: “Jesus, tired from the long walk, sat wearily beside the well about noontime” (John 4:6 NLT). You may be in a season of a long walk too.
A long walk of waiting for answers.
A long walk of healing.
A long walk of coming alongside someone you love.
A long walk of faithfulness in a hard situation.
A long walk of victory and seeing God do powerful things in your life.
If you’re tired and you need to sit down wearily, it isn’t a failure. It isn’t weakness. It isn’t proof that you can’t keep up.
If you’re tired and you need to sit down wearily, you’re following the example of a Savior who knows what it’s like to be human.
It’s at this well where Jesus sits down that He meets a Samaritan woman and has a transformational conversation with her. I love this because it shows us, God worked through Jesus when He was tired and weary.
Jesus needing to slow down and rest didn’t pause God’s plan for His life. Instead, it opened up a different kind of opportunity for God to work.
It’s easy to believe God can only use us when we’re at our best, strongest, and fastest. But God’s purposes don’t require a certain level of energy or a pace we must maintain. He can work in our slowest moments and our swiftest, in the times when we’re moving forward and when we can’t take one more step. He used Jesus when He turned water into wine at a wedding and when He sat down wearily by a well.
Why is this possible? Because the work of God doesn’t depend on us. “Jesus told them, ‘This is the only work God wants from you: Believe in the one he has sent’” (John 6:29 NLT).
Sometimes the hardest part of believing is trusting we’re loved in every moment.
You’re loved when you’re working.
You’re loved when you’re resting.
You’re loved when you’re full of energy.
You’re loved when you’re exhausted.
You’re loved when you’re ministering.
You’re loved when you’re curling up to take a nap.
You never have to be afraid that you’re letting God down by being human. Your loving God is compassionate toward your tiredness. Your faithful God is able to use even your weakest moments to show His strength. Your limitless God isn’t held back by your limitations.
Feeling tired doesn’t mean you’re failing; it means you’re trying hard. You only grow weary when you’ve put forth effort of some kind — emotional, mental, physical, professional, spiritual (maybe all of the above).
Who have you loved, although imperfectly?
What worthy cause have you fought for, even if victory isn’t sure yet?
How have you pursued a goal, chased a dream, nurtured your own healing?
When you’re tired, it can feel like the right thing to do is push harder. Spur on your soul like a stubborn horse. Add another shot to your coffee, stay up an hour later, lengthen your to-do list, shorten your patience with yourself.
But what if the invitation of Jesus, who described His heart as gentle and lowly, is to do the opposite? The One who spoke the world into being has no trouble with completing tasks, no concern that you won’t pull your weight. He even carried a cross so your burden would not be heavy but light.
Honor your tiredness the way you would a warrior. Say to it, “You are proof that much good has been done, much love has been shared, much life has been lived.” Welcome it the way you would a soldier returning from war. Feed it, let it sleep, wrap a blanket around its shoulders.
Trust that your tiredness is a visitor — it’s not here to stay. Give it space to be with you for a bit, and it will go on its way. You don’t have to ignore it, don’t need to evict it, just offer it some compassion and perhaps a cup of tea, some sacred silence, or an evening on the couch watching TV.
When you wake in the morning, it may be gone, having slipped away somewhere in the night. If it’s still there, that’s alright.
You’re a human being with bones and a soul, nerves and elbows, a heart that beats almost one hundred thousand times a day. Tiredness will sometimes be your companion. This isn’t a flaw; it’s simply a fact — one you share with all the other billions of people on this planet and a perfect Savior who once napped on a boat in a storm.
You are tired today.
You are fully loved.
You are doing well.
All of these can be true at the same time.
Laura says
Holley,
I just want to say you are an amazing writer and (in) courger! Thank you for your beautiful words today!
Hugs, Laura
KathleenB says
Amen!
Madeline says
Holley, thank you. I appreciate the line “feeling tired doesn’t mean you’re failing; it means you’re trying hard.” I often feel guilty because I get tired and think of all I should be doing. And, then I push myself and the outcome isn’t the best- I make mistakes and/or end up physically getting hurt. And because of that, I have been forced to take things slow while my knee heels. I pray it does not mean surgery because I am not sure I can be immobile for as long as it might take. I am trying to remember that Jesus rested. So, on this rainy summer day, I am going to ice my knee, have a cup of tea and read- and try not to look at the to do list.
Lisa Wilt says
Holley,
I shared your devotion x 2 because I think it will speak to so many women who are weary! It’s the ebb and flow of life!
Sending you summer joy,
Lisa Wilt
Holley Gerth says
Thank you for reading and sharing, Lisa!
No Name says
I already knew it right! Hooray. One time you exerted all of your energy and now energy less. You battles over fights not yours to win over. It’s easier yielding than giving it a fight with no more energy that can be squeezed. Coz the battle belong to the Lord. Victory is already won. Don’t compromise. Live in integrity. Live simply. He will and had supplied all of the needs, the wants not included. But there are just this people who uses other to fight their battles. And it’s also a thought to ponder on when to fight and when not to.
Betsy Basile says
Holley…….This was absolutely a wonderful story in every word you have written.I am 77 years old and yes, I am in a season of a long walk like you told us about Jesus. Yet, 2 weeks ago progress on a very serious situation seemed to be making progress. I am so glad that you told all of us that being weary is not a sign that I am falling behind. Sometimes a do seem to forget that Jesus knows what it is like to be a human, but I only feel this way when I am so tired I think I can’t take another step. I know that He is a loving God and a faithful God, but you are much, much younger than I am and I have experienced so many changes in my season and I was a manager in C/S for a very large company. I was awarded for the job I did, but when I reached 70, I saw and felt like things were not so easy as they were when I was 40. At 40, I never thought about being the age that I am now. It’s funny how that happens when the children are grown, married and maybe even grandchildren. Empty nesters is what they called us. I was so upset when my son left for college. He had always been there with me and my Mother-in-law lived with us for 16 years. Not only 10 hour a day job, a big house to take care of, meals to cook. It was no problem when I was much younger, but at 70, I realized that Jesus felt it was time to slow down and maybe retire. I followed his path and did retire. Then I went through since I had been there 40 years I was leaving so many people down, but all the people that reported to me had a big party for me and made me feel loved and still wanted, but they knew I just could not do it anymore. My drive alone one way was 45 minutes. That alone exhausted me with all the nuts on the road, it was frightening. Anyway, Holley. I will read your story over and over and I thank you for sharing this with us. You women from the incourage community are Angels to us that struggle with serious problems and not necessarily physical. I have gotten something out of every word you wrote today. Love and prayers to you and may I send you a hug today? It is very lonely being alone without human beings being here. My husband has violent dementia and almost killed me, but that is a story for another day……………….Betsy Basile
Holley Gerth says
I receive that hug, Betsy, and I’m sending one back!
Irene says
Thanks, Holley!
Amy Zumdahl says
Holly,
This is so perfect for my day. I need to read these ordained words from you and God this morning. Thank you! Glory to God.
You are loved today in whatever you are going through too. Praying for you.
Holley Gerth says
Thank you for your kind words and prayers, Amy!
Maura says
My weary soul needed this.
Mary Bellavia says
Oh, how I needed these words today. For the last 6 days I have been between our home and our daughter’s home helping to take care of our 3 grandchildren ages 3,5 & 8 years old. Our daughter was away. Weekdays I helped out from 8:00am – 10:00pm and the weekend from 10:30am -10:00pm. I always wanted to make sure the children were all snuggled down and asleep before I left.
Our daughter is back.
I’m feeling tired today and I’m trying not to feel guilty of taking a day of rest for myself.
Shelley Scarborough says
This is so beautifully written and spoke so deeply to my weariness that it brought tears to my eyes. Life was so hard for 4 years and God finally has brought a season of rest. This was a reminder that being tired “isn’t here to stay”. Thank you
Holley Gerth says
I’m glad you have come to a season of rest and that these words spoke to you in it.
Jane Royse says
I so needed to hear this today. Going through chemotherapy and have a long journey ahead. Truly, you poured a healing balm into my heart.
Holley Gerth says
Saying a prayer for you today, Jane.
Melody Bollinger says
Richly encouraging!! I have such regard for all of Holley’s writings and this one was perfectly timed. God is certainly so very good!
Flor says
I’ve been in a season of tiredness lately. I hope it would be gane by now. I had to quit college, I am 8 months pregnant with 2 other littles that get the little energy I can give, but everything else is a mess in my life… I feel so guilty for not being enough. My pregnancy was and still is a hard one phisically and mentally and I am just trying to survive. I will recall these words you wrote so beutifully today Holley. Hugs.
Holley Gerth says
Saying a prayer for you today, Flor.
Gayle says
Holley, Thank you so much for allowing God to use you into speaking directly to me..God Bless you & your family
Susen says
Holley, you are an amazing writer, what a gift God has given you. Thank you for being so relatable to many of the readers here! You are making a difference for others.
God Bless!
Janine Petry says
Holly,
I needed this one more than words can say. Thank you for being honest, showing up, loving so well. My tired heart needs that rest.
Estella Kay Pannell says
This Devotion really encouraged me today, my Amazing Granddaughter
sent to me , today ♥️
Stephanie Benoit says
Just what I needed!
Thank you
Beth Williams says
Holley,
Lysa Terkeurst said in her book Your Best Yes “Saying yes to everyone and everything won’t make you wonder woman. It will make you a worn out woman with nothing left to give.” Genesis 2-3 By the seventh day God had finished the work he had been doing; so on the seventh day he rested from all his work. Then God blessed the seventh day and made it holy, because on it he rested from all the work of creating that he had done. Even God rested after doing all the creating. He made the day holy to rest from -?work. If God & Jesus needed to rest from all their work, then how much more do we need to rest?
Blessings 🙂