Tables. Let’s talk about tables. There has been a lot of talk about tables. It seems that everywhere I turn there is a sermon, a podcast, or a song mentioning tables. Why do you suppose that is? It’s because so much of life happens around a table.
We eat there during our daily meals. We enjoy large feasts for the holidays. We celebrate successes and mourn losses, all around the table. We share stories and laughs. We ask questions and give advice. We dream and strategize. We even have hard conversations, all around the table.
I had the joy of being invited to sit around a table for a Galentine’s gathering. My friend Amie was the host. She and her husband recently moved back to Baton Rouge after living in other states for some years. As we all can imagine, re-entry to a place that has changed in your absence can be complex. But Amie has a ton of dear friends and has had sweet community in the cities she has lived in. She desires to create that type of community now back in her hometown.
Amie’s dream has always been to have a table that seats twelve. Her dream finally came true. Delivered to her new house a week before our gathering was a stunning table that, when extended, fits exactly twelve. Each woman who came that night was beautiful, kind, smart, funny, engaging, talented, humble, gracious, and madly in love with Jesus. We were all in varying degrees of ministry, of different ages and seasons of life.
We ate and laughed and cried. We shared our hearts, dreams, and passions. We shared the challenges of life where we needed prayer and we shared how God has answered prayers. We encouraged and challenged one another. Each one of us felt seen, heard, loved, and valued.
I tend to be someone who makes friends rather easily. I find great joy in new friendships, yet a room full of strangers can be intimidating. I’m so grateful that Amie fought her fears or doubts to extend the invitation and create space for connection. I’m so grateful that I said ‘yes’ to the invite.
I read on a blog that “In the Bible, the table has always been a place of presence — where God is present with His people and His people are present with one another.” I think that is beautiful. That’s exactly what took place that night.
We all began the night as strangers and left as friends, sisters, and cheerleaders. I’m expectant about what the Lord will continue to teach me through the lives of each of my new friends. And I’m thrilled to be on a mission to further the gospel and build the kingdom with a group of women who have burning hearts for Jesus.
I think about the life of Christ. He spent a great deal of time reclining at tables. He entered the homes of friends and strangers. He was invited and welcomed in and He invited Himself into some of those spaces. He shared meals. He taught parables that explained the kingdom. He healed the sick. He delivered the demonized. He saved the lost and encouraged the broken.
In Luke 19:1-10, Jesus invites Himself to the home of Zacchaeus, a notorious sinner in his community. Jesus knew he was curious about turning his life around and making amends. Jesus quickly extended grace and forgave him.
Luke 7:36-50 is one of my favorite moments in Scripture. Here we find yet another person known to be a sinner in their community. This woman barges her way into a private dinner where Jesus is in attendance. She lavishes worship on Jesus by anointing Him with costly oil and her tears. In the presence of Jesus, she was truly repentant. Again, forgiveness was given and generously so.
In the Passover supper recorded in Matthew 26:17-30, Jesus tells the disciples of the new covenant that will be ushered in because of His death and resurrection. He leads them in prayers of thanks. They break bread and drink wine. He exposes a future betrayal. They worship.
Another inspiring moment in Scripture happens in Luke 14:1-6. On the Sabbath, Jesus finds Himself at the home of a Pharisee for a meal. A man is in attendance who is sick in his body. Without hesitation, Jesus heals the man. And Jesus asks the religious leaders questions that they had no answers to.
When Jesus shows up at the table, everything changes. His presence shatters all confusion. It brings peace to chaos. It brings hope, healing, and restoration. His presence ushers in waves of grace and mercy, love and redemption.
There is always room for you at His table. He welcomes us in our sin, our shame, our brokenness. He covers us in His blood, forgives us, and sets us free.
At His table, we find our Savior, our Lord, our Father, and our friend.
Are you in a season where you need a seat at His table? I’d love for you to share so I can encourage you!
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Kathy Francescon says
Beautiful and inspiring words today, Karina. I pray to always have a seat at Christ’s Table! Bless you for sharing encouragement around the table!
Karina Allen says
Thank you so much Kathy! I’m so grateful for a seat at His table!
Jill says
Karina, what a beautiful start to my day! Having the right women in our life is so important. How blessed you are! Thank you for sharing.
Karina Allen says
Thank you Jill! I’m praying that the Lord surrounds you as well!
Jill S says
The joy of that evening is felt through these words and gives new meaning to gathering at the table. Thank you for sharing.
Karina Allen says
Jill, that means so much! Praying for the same joy in your life!
Maura says
A place of presence. What a beautiful reminder.
Karina Allen says
Amen and Amen!Thank you for reading Maura!
Cheryl says
Sisters, definitely this hit me this morning.. we recently moved from our big house to a small 500 sq ft basement suite and the thing I have most missed is my kitchen table. Having a wee small 2 seat island is not at all inviting. Thankful God meets me wherever I am.. and likely it’s meeting others at a coffee shop now. Not exactly the same though. Be thankful for that. table‼️ and share it with others.
Karina Allen says
Thank you for reading Cheryl! Praying for creative ways for you to gather!!!
Kristina says
THIS. All of this. Shared with girlfriends. Read outloud to my husband (sorry, not sorry). Read and re-read again. What a gift this is and cannot wait to see what else you’ve published so I can devour that as well!
Karina Allen says
Kristina! You are TOO kind!!! Thank you so much! That means the world to me! Thank you for reading and sharing!!!
Beth Williams says
Karina,
Such a touching story of friendship. God created us for community. The easiest way to make friends is to be one. Extend the hand of friendship. It can be daunting at times-especially for us introverts. They way I do it is to talk with people at church, Loaves & Fishes Food bank, work or wherever I am. God is with us communing & enjoying the sacred relationships we are forming.
Blessings 🙂