It’s already a new year?! 2024! I can hardly believe it! It seems as though we were all just ringing in the new year of 2023. I think I have a complicated relationship with New Year’s. I think it tends to be one of those “truths in tension” as my friend Abi calls it.
I love getting a new planner and wall calendar. I love looking forward to the events and gatherings to come, new friends to be made, and new dreams to be dreamed and realized. New years are filled with infinite possibilities and high levels of hope. Sounds great, right?
So here is where the tension lies: all of those aspects of a new year are exciting, but there is also something about a new year that brings a tinge of regret. I reflect on the past year and regret some of the things I did and didn’t do, dreams yet to be accomplished, words spoken and unspoken.
For me, 2023 was a whirlwind of highs and lows. Life took me for a ride. Tighter budgets, health challenges, traveling, pursuing my passions, church life, gaining friends, and losing them. See? It’s a lot. And that’s not even including all of the world events we’ve all been walking through together.
My walk with the Lord has also had its fair share of ups and downs . . . seasons of intimacy and seasons of wilderness and everything in between. I’m sure many of you have faced trials, hardships, successes, and wins. Joys and sorrows often transpire hand in hand.
God has shifted my perspective over the final weeks of 2023. I want this new year to be different. I don’t want to walk in regret or lament over all of the disappointments. I want to stand upon the firm foundation of His truth and promises. I want to learn, grow, and be refined. I want to see this past year through His viewpoint and with the hope that only Jesus brings.
I often forget that with every rise of the sun and every turn of a calendar year, our God is the same. Hebrews 13:8 reminds us that Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever. He never changes. He never fails. He never wavers.
When the chaos of life surrounds us, God is the sure and steadfast anchor of our souls. He is our solid rock when the storms of life rage around us. He is our strong tower of protection against the enemy.
When the world and people promise to deliver but fall short, He never does. He is faithful to keep His covenant promises. He does not lie and is true to His Word.
One of my favorite verses about God’s faithfulness is found in 2 Timothy 2:12-13. Here we find a few of God’s responses to our actions. If we do this, then God will do that. Verse 13 is the best news for us in our flawed humanity: “If we are faithless, He remains faithful — for He cannot deny Himself.”
Everything about the nature and activity of God is faithful. Faithful is who He is and what He does. Our goal should be to live lives pleasing and acceptable to a Holy God. But, when we are prone to wander away, He is faithful to pursue us. When we fall into or choose to sin, He is faithful to hear our confession and lavish us with His forgiveness.
Jesus is called Faithful and True according to Revelation 19:11. His faithfulness never depends on us or our circumstances. His faithfulness is attached to His character — not ours. Oh, what beautiful news for us, His daughters. We don’t have to strive for God to be faithful to us. We get to rest in who He loves being to us.
I am trusting in our good and faithful Father this year. He is the faithful One that can redeem any situation and mend all things broken. He restores our hope. How great is His faithfulness!
Is the new year filling you with regret or hope? How do you need God to show Himself faithful to you?
Maura says
Thank you for sharing a much needed reminder of our loving God.
Karina Allen says
You’re so welcome Maura!
Irene says
Thanks, Karina, for your reminders. I am struggling to lose weight. I have accomplished my goals in this area in the past. And I know, with God’s help, I can do it again. But it is so hard this time! I need to do my part, and have faith that God will do His. I believe He will.
Karina Allen says
Irene, thank you for sharing! I understand your struggle.
Father, You are faithful to lead and to provide grace for what we need. I pray that You fill Irene with a supernatural desire to be a good steward of her temple. Bless that desire. I pray that You will water the fruit of self-control in her, that there would be an ease in making good choices. Your joy is her strength. Give her a vision for the future You have for her. Bless her efforts.
In Jesus’ Name. Amen.
Lenora White says
Thanks for the beautiful reminder. We definitely need to keep Jesus at the forefront of our hearts forever. I pray all is well.
Karina Allen says
Thank you for reading and sharing Lenora! Praying that Jesus keeps our gaze this year.
Janet W says
“I want to stand upon the firm foundation of His truth and promises. I want to learn, grow, and be refined. I want to see this past year through His viewpoint and with the hope that only Jesus brings”
YES!
I want to stand in His faithfulness!
YES!
Thank you Karina \0/
Dawn Ferguson-Little says
This is a New year. I want to live for Jesus in word thought and deed. Do everything so the unsaved see Jesus in me. Want want I have that is to know Jesus for themselves. Pray for the things Jesus would have me pray for. As this God is the same God as Hebrews 13 v 8 yesterday today and forever. If you need to repent for something you done wrong in word thought or deed. You can know Jesus will forgive you if you pray and ask him. Karina thank you sso much for this wonderful word and remind us that our God is faithful God and he loves us. Is willing to forgive us of our sin if we ask him. Help change to the people that are saved that God wants us to be. Love today’s reading. Love Dawn Ferguson-Little xx
Lisa Wilt says
My father went up to heaven 4 days before we celebrated Jesus coming down from heaven at Christmas. The loss is raw and more than ever I appreciate GOD’S FAITHFULNESS!
Beth Williams says
Lisa,
Sweet sister- prayers for comfort & peace as you mourn your dad’s death. May you feel Him close to you giving you lots of hugs.
Blessings 🙂
Melody says
I so appreciated this writing. It is certainly timely!!
Beth Williams says
Karina,
From fall 2022 till just recently I have regrets. Mostly about my behavior at work. The job duties changed drastically one day from clerical to stocking rooms. I went from a happy December 2021 to a gloomy, depressed person September 2022. Usually I like a new year. It feels like a new beginning. A chance to start over & put the past behind me. For the past few years that hasn’t happened that is until God intervened. There was a new position within my unit (ICU). I told management that I would like to have it. December 22 they called & gave me the job-clerical for 2100 (an ICU & step down unit combined). Through that trial I clung to God as my anchor. I knew He was the one who gave me the job in the first place so wait & see what His plans are.
My song for the year is Chris Tomin’s “Thank you Lord”. These two lines sum up how I feel: Thank You Lord for the hard times
For lighting the way in the dark times For pulling me in, forgiving again The times that I took it too far,
I Gotta thank You for keeping me humble For picking me up when I stumble And although I change, You stay the same
And I don’t say thank You enough
Blessings 🙂