There is no longer to-do list than the one I have during December. It is big, long, and far more ambitious than I am committed to. And at the very top of that list is one thing: actually send my Christmas cards.
I have a bit of a love-hate relationship with Christmas cards. All through the years as my children were growing up, I diligently sent Christmas cards. We had moved away, and I wanted to send a photo and a newsletter to friends and family back home. I also knew that if I stopped sending my own cards, I’d fall off others’ card lists, and I really didn’t want to stop receiving them. I loved getting photos and newsletters from friends and family — well, most of them. Some I just couldn’t bring myself to read because they all sounded so perfect. Their children were smarter than my children. They had better vacations, better husbands, and in general, better lives . . . or so it sounded. The Christmas newsletter was the precursor to social media, except that with the newsletter I only had to hear and see the highlight reel one time a year, not every single day.
But still, sending Christmas cards was always at the top of my list because they are valuable. However, last year I got less than halfway through writing my cards, and I threw them all in the trash — even the ones I had addressed and finished. Time had gotten away from me, and I just couldn’t do it. I couldn’t send only a few, I couldn’t bear to finish them, and I just couldn’t send them after December 25th.
I didn’t send Christmas cards, and I love Christmas cards.
I didn’t send Christmas cards, and I love all things Christmas.
I didn’t send Christmas cards, and I work for a company that makes greeting cards.
I let time slip away last year, and I was sad, and when I think about it, I still get sad — sad I didn’t find or take the time to write Christmas cards because while words are powerful, handwritten words are priceless.
So this is the year. This is the year to be mindful and deliberate, to respond to Christmas with an attitude of worship, like that very first Christmas.
Mary sang her song, and her soul glorified the Lord. Her spirit rejoiced in God her Savior. The song she sang as she acknowledged the great things He had done and His mercy that lifts up the humble and fills the hungry (Luke 1:46-55).
Mary took the time to worship through song, and I will take the time to worship via meaningful words in each Christmas card I write. It might be five cards or fifty cards, but no matter how many, they will be meaningful. Words of hope, joy, and encouragement from me will be found in the mailboxes of my loved ones, not in my trash.
This is the season to slow down, rest, worship, and tell others of the great things He has done. This year I am giving encouragement — and a few gifts, of course!
Here are five tips for writing (and actually sending) Christmas cards:
- Make a Christmas card spreadsheet. Get a count, fill in addresses, and keep track of cards that were sent and/or received.
- Buy stamps ahead of time. Go buy them today!
- Write and address a few cards each night. Pop them in your mailbox each morning, put up the flag, and feel satisfied about getting closer to the finish line.
- Let your kids help! If their handwriting is legible, let them sign the family name on the cards. Give them some stickers or crayons, and let them decorate the envelopes. If they’re older, put them in charge of that spreadsheet, have them pick up stamps at the store, or let them pick out the actual cards. Whatever their ages, they can help out!
- Select Christmas cards that reflect Christ! We love a glittery snowman, but when it comes to cards, we love making it about Jesus. In case you need to stock up, here are a few of our favorites from DaySpring.
Friends, there is still time. Enlist your family to help lick envelopes, crank out those address labels, and send off some Christmas cheer.
For more inspiration, read these articles from DaySpring:
Ruth Mills says
Great suggestions, Kim. I recently got the nudge why do we wait til Christmas to send cards? A handwritten note means just as much, maybe more, the other 11 months of the year. Blessings! (((0)))
Cheryl says
Amen Married 56 years and done cards even with stickers and letters in each . I do keep a list so much easier . I buy cards this year to be ready to write the next following year . So much smarter .
And yes I even collect and keep best ones I receive all these years and hang up separately . Handwritten folks the heart especially of the lonely and shows so much more love than just a signature at bottom .
Take time and just do it . ‼️ God Bless you Max Merry Christmas
Anna Crandell says
I save my favorites and make a wall Christmas tree. It gets bigger every year . You have to be selective or it gets out of hand you want to keep them all. So Rotate add and subtract. You can use the back of a door. or put it on the outside. to greet guest!
Beth Williams says
Anna,
Years ago when I was single I kept all my Christmas cards & used them for decorations also. It is an inexpensive way to brighten up the apartment & still remember the people that gave them to you. I keep every card I’ve ever gotten just in case I need more decorations.
Blessings 🙂
Beth Williams says
Kim,
I, too used to send/hand out Christmas cards. Then I stopped for a long period. Not sure why guess life got busy. This year is different. Going to be intentional & get some cards to hand out at church, work & mail to friends. I know it can be hard, but if you start early like Thanksgiving weekend then you can have it done quickly.
Blessings 🙂