In my job as a life plan advisor at a retirement community, among other roles, I’m an educator and tour guide. It may come as a surprise, but there’s a vocabulary specific to our industry – and much to learn in general – so a lot of my time is devoted to teaching people what they need to know. Understanding the right questions to ask always helps you make informed decisions, a concept that proves true for just about anything.
While I love the education piece, my favorite aspect of my job is meeting and developing relationships with prospective residents. Daily, and without knowing it, they teach, challenge, and inspire me — sometimes in life, and the best of times in my faith.
When a man walked in on a Friday afternoon recently — without an appointment — while I was nursing a raging migraine, I had an odd sense God was up to something. David was carrying a big, carved stick, his eyes were sparkling, and I could tell this guy was a rascal. Turns out, he was also quite a storyteller. It wouldn’t take long to discover his fanciful stories usually ended up pointing to God.
As we talked and toured our campus, in between my educational points, David interjected his God stories. Somehow each one was relevant within the context of our conversation. Eventually, we ended up in a spot where we could chat privately, and I had to ask him about his stick. He wasn’t using it for walking, so why was he lugging it around?
He asked me if I had enough time for him to tell his Stick Story. Headache or not, I had to say yes. When God gives you an opportunity to talk about Him, you take it.
The abridged version of my new friend’s story is that after reading the account of David and Goliath (1 Samuel 17), my friend David decided he wanted a stick. I never even noticed a stick in this renowned Old Testament duel, only David’s stones and sling he used to slay the giant. But Goliath noticed the stick — a staff, which is what every shepherd like David would carry. He ridiculed and cursed David, insulted that this insignificant boy would dare to challenge him — an underestimation that cost Goliath his life.
So powerful was storyteller David’s encounter with God when he read this scripture for the umpteenth time, he started praying for God to give him a stick. Not long after, in the middle of Walmart, an older gentleman walked up to him, handed over the carved stick (now propped in front of me, and said, “The Lord told me to give you this stick.” Right then and there David promised God he’d use the stick for His glory, and here he was doing that very thing. It was only then that I could make out the intricate carving on the wooden stick: J-E-S-U-S L-O-V-E-S Y-O-U. I got chills.
Obviously, I’m leaving out a lot of details, but you get the picture. It’s a remarkable story. Isn’t God doing what only He can do always a remarkable story? David told me that he carries his Jesus stick with him wherever he goes, and it always invites a conversation to point others to Christ. He knew I was a believer from our conversation, but I imagine if he could tell I wasn’t, he would have shared the gospel with me too.
David was a “natural Christian” to me. I picked up that phrase in my 20s from a leader at a city-wide Bible study in Atlanta. Out of the years I attended, only one illustration stands out from this leader whose name I’ve long forgotten: the one about a lady he affectionally described as a “natural Christian.”
He described his dear friend as the kind of person who’s so close to God, you can tell it by the way they act or speak. They’re the ones whose countenance is radiant, who love Jesus so much and who know Him so intimately that they can’t help but invite Him into every conversation, without a shred of judgment, only leading in love. They want everyone to have what they’ve received: the life-changing power of the gospel. They want everyone to know the good news we find in the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus.
Meeting David reminded me of the precious people in my life who’ve pointed me to Jesus by their obvious delight in Him, who can’t not talk about Him when we’re together because it’s, well…natural for them to share. David’s Stick Story stuck with me, leaving me to wonder, What is God up to? Does he want me to have a stick?
Because I live in the buckle of the Bible belt, most of my friends are Christians. It’s easy to talk to them about God. It’s also easy to write about my faith because there are physical barriers between me and those who read my words. But I’ve always been hesitant to share my faith with those who don’t know Christ yet. What I wish felt natural, feels unnatural or contrived to me.
But what if I had some object – like an ordinary stick – that invited others to initiate the conversation? What if God, the giver of every good and perfect gift, gave me a “stick story” to tell for His glory?
Am I brave enough to pray for such a thing?
Are you?
Bomi says
Lovely – Thank you for sharing, Robin 🙂 Food for thought!
Did David end up at your retirement community, or did he decide to live someplace else? He sounds so delightful, would love to hear more of his story 🙂
It’s great to hear/see you thriving at this job, I remember reading a post way back about when you sought God for a new career opportunity and God provided this job. Trusting God for the best for you, as always!
Blessings, Bomi 🙂
Robin Dance says
Bomi,
What a sweet gift for you to remember me mentioning about God opening the door for my job; it is one of the best God-stories he’s given me, and one that continues to buoy my faith.
David is staying put for now :). I sure hope he’ll make a move one day, though.
Thank you so much for reading and leading off in comments today. xo
Kellie Johnson says
Love this. Isn’t it like God to use a good prop to point to Himself? I see this is many who are choosing to get tattoos later in life that point to their faith. A good conversation starter opens the door to share our stories. I love the visual of this stick! Thank you for sharing 🙂
-Kellie
Robin Dance says
Kellie,
Do you ever ask people about the meaning behind their tattoos? I have. More often than not, it comes with a good story. What better reason to get one, than to point others to God? Lovely idea!
Ariel Krienke says
That was such a beautiful story, thank you for the encouragement and thought provoking story. Encourages me to consider how to apply to my life.
Robin Dance says
If you come up with your version of a “stick,” will you pop back over to incourage and let us know? <3
Ruth Mills says
May God give us eyes to see the “sticks” all around us that we naturally point to Him with or without a physical prop of our own. May we all be natural Christians! If you’ve met Jesus you have a stick story to tell! Thanks for this reminder, Robin! Blessings!
Robin Dance says
Ruth,
Your enthusiasm has me excited about today’s possibilities. What a lofty goal–to be so excited about our faith, it can’t help but be seen in our walk and talk!! 🙂
Becky L says
What a delightful story in life you shared. ❤️ It adds a positive thing in my life today as I just read this before I get out of bed. I try to read (in)courage early than other emails. So thankful that God is with us always , as He sticks His love in our lives as the best God in the world and universe as we walk the path He’s given us. Have a good day.
Robin Dance says
Becky :),
What a sweet way to start your day–with your (in)sisters, focusing on Jesus. Perfect!
Michelle Stiffler says
Robin! Thank you for this story! I could see you and David walking the property together, glowing in kindred conversation about Jesus. I’m encouraged today to pray big, live faithfully, and share my story joyfully. Thank you!
Robin Dance says
Michelle,
Which encourages me right back! Thank you for reading and taking time to visit with us :). I’m excited about how God is going to work in your life.
Christina Wienroth says
encouraging ! I pray that the Lord may open my eyes for the everyday experiences of His nearness and love and that I find a good way to remember them and to be present in my day so that I notice what God does / how He works in my day – if I am not aware of Hia presence and if I don’t have the stories in my mind I cannot share them …
Robin Dance says
What a wonderful prayer, Christina, to be continually aware of God’s presence. I think I’ll add that to my prayer-thoughts today :).
Gail says
I love this, Robin. Last night our ladies group began a study of John 15 using Beth Moore’s Chasing Vines. At the end of the evening, our leader asked us to consider the question of what we hope to get from this study, what is our why. THIS is my why. I want to abide in Jesus so well that His love flows from me like a “natural Christian”. Sharing the Gospel with non-Christians is hard for me too, but I want to be able to let His love flow through me in a way that makes a difference in helping others find relationship with Him. I’m in my retirement years now, but I still want my life to matter for Him. I don’t ever want to retire from that.
Robin Dance says
Gail!!! YES!! Don’t retire from opening your life to always point to Jesus! This is inspiring, to see how the Lord can take a story and multiply it among his daughters to bring glory to himself. Your study sounds wonderful <3.
Dawn Ferguson-Little says
Robin thank you for sharing your story. I can tell of stories of times God has been so good to me in certain situations in my life. I can see in my own stick stories come to life. Where I seen the hand of God pick me up in love. You know the way a dog finds a sick and picks it up of the ground and carries it carefully in his mouth and before picks it up so gently so as not to break it. God has picked me up gently and put his loving arms around me in the past. Like that stick the dog picks up to carry in it mouth careful so as nothing will happen it. God has said to me in the past Dawn it ok. I know people especially the unsaved can forget about you and don’t see the hurt and pain they cause you at times. Because of the way they have treated you in a manner that not nice. They don’t care as long as their needs are met they are ok. You felt it said why me so many times. I see what they have done and I see your hurt. I know God has said to it not nice what they do. I am carrying you carefully in my arms. To let you know I care what happens to to you and the way people make you feel by the way they treated you in that manner that is not nice. They don’t think or see the harm they are doing. But I do.You remember I am carrying you carefully so as not to let fall again victim of what people do to damage you again. Like the dog carrying the sick in his mouth carefully so as not to damage it. I love you and my projective arms are round you with my love. I will keep you strong so as you will be able to pray for the people that treat you like this. So as when you do you can love them in my love and not let what they do hurt you. As I am your Heavenly Father you are my child. I don’t like to see you sad or hurt over people like this. Then the Lord gave Numbers 6 verses 24-26. It says “The Lord bless you The Lord make his face shine upon you. And be gracious to you. The Lord lift up His countenance upon you And give you his peace.” Thoes verse have helped me alot. To know the Lord will do what he has said in those verses for me in Numbers. I can shine for him knowing God’s peace is with me and his loving arms. No matter what I go through in life and that I am loved by God at all times. Love Dawn Ferguson-Little xx
Robin Dance says
Yes, Dawn…THAT! We are loved by God at all times!
Karen Purkey says
Thank you Robin! This is a wonderful story that you have shared with us today.
We live in a 55 and older independent community.
My favorite joy living here is to listen to other’s stories.
You have inspired me today to become a “natural Christian.”
Robin Dance says
I love how the Holy Spirit works in and through us :). I wonder if your community is close to where we often visit…I’m headed there next month, and wouldn’t it be fun if our paths crossed?
Loretta says
I grew up with the family of boys. They were neighbors and our mothers were friends. To me it never seemed right to call them by their first names so I called them mom and pop Trujillo. They did not have physical ” sticks” but the kindness and hospitality they showed to everyone was the best “stick” I ever was witness to. I cannot ever remember an unkind word ever spoken about anyone even those they might not have liked. But one never knew as they treated everyone alike. They were not in the least bit wealthy but the riches they shared with others were immeasurable. Joy, peace, love, kindness, laughter, were always in abundance. I learned much from them as well as from my own parents. I am now in the waning years of my life and my hope is that how I have lived my life might be a blessing to someone as mom and pop and my own parents were to me. Don’tcha just love storytellers. I spent my childhood listening to them. Kinda sad there aren’t many left or at least that’s how it feels in this age of technology.
Robin Dance says
Loretta, Oh, I think there are storytellers left. YOU are one of them! Thank you for introducing us to Mom & Pop Trujillo. They sound lovely, and I feel like I know them a bit through the way you’ve shared about their lives. I’m sure you’ve been a blessing to those around you :).
Irene says
This was wonderful, Robin! I must ponder this. And pray on it.
Robin Dance says
<3
J Barnett says
I think he has given all of us a “stick story”, but are we able to see it and if so, are we brave enough to use it? This story showed me that I have one and it’s called RA/Fibromyalgia. He gets me through every day of 24/7 chronic pain and debilitating fatigue, but I’m not using it to it’s potential. I’ve just recently gotten to the acceptance of being thankful for it, and now it’s time to use it for His glory. I’m still a work in progress- it’s getting time for me to succumb to a scooter, which I’m not happy about because in my eyes it is a weakness. Maybe this is my visible stick and is to be used, again, for His glory.
Robin Dance says
This is powerful. Do you have any idea? THIS is the Holy Spirit working in you! To change how you think in a way that ultimately brings glory to our King? Gracious…I’m praying for you to use your “stick” with joy and gladness. When you feel weak, it is opportunity for His strength to work in and through you!! He’s given you a literal vehicle to point back to him :). I’m praying for you right now, to lean in to God’s strength, to allow the HS to work through you, and for you to have courage in humbly telling your stories to point to Him.
Beth Williams says
Robin,
A few weeks ago I felt a “God” nudge if you will. He said hey I’ve given you a testimony now go share it. I took the plunge & posted it on Face Book. I think people see me as a “natural Christian”. When a friend first saw my Face Book page she said “yep all Christian postings”. In my life I try to shower this world with God’s light & love.
Blessings 🙂 P.S. Congrats on the job