All of us have something special within ourselves that impacts others and can alter the atmosphere around us: Everyday superpowers. Not exactly the blockbuster movie variety, but superpowers nonetheless. Attitudes and influence that shape opinion, encourage or inspire, and change the course of someone’s day, even if only our own. This is not nothing. In fact, it’s quite a lot.
The person who can always soothe a crying baby in your church nursery. The friend who has a knack for fixing virtually anything. The stranger who sing-songs across the Kroger parking lot, “I LOVE your dress!” turning your frown upside down, then, “Girl, your SHOES (hand gesturing in a dramatic swirl from your head toward your feet), you got it GOING ON today!” Okay…that was personal. Someone I had never met until last Tuesday, and won’t likely ever see again, had the ability to transform my lousy day into something lovely. If that isn’t power, I don’t know what is.
Everyday superpowers are not something we conjure or force, but they can be cultivated.
Ephesians 2:10 (NLT) tells us, “… we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago.” We are created in His image with a planned purpose, and regardless of our age or stage, there are always good things for us to do.
What you offer matters because no one else has exactly what you have to give. God has fashioned each one of us uniquely in a way to impact the people and circumstances around us, whether in word or deed, in large ways or small. Do you understand what that means? Darling, the world hasn’t been the same since you were born.
Satan knows this, too. I suspect he understands God’s plans for us better than we do. It would explain the discouragement, defeat, and despair that continually creep into our hearts and minds. Satan hates us – he hates God! – and he effectively undermines us (and God) any way he can.
Usually, I think of our everyday superpowers as an outward influence, but recently I’ve considered what a superpower can mean personally. For most of my life, one of my superpowers has been “irrepressible optimism and a tendency to find good in everything” — textbook Pollyanna. In the absence of light, I’d pinpoint the bright side. When all seemed lost, I could find the thinnest silver lining. But, as the past two years have brought some of the darkest days of my life, there have been moments when I’ve been crushed by the pain of circumstance. I could barely hold it together.
It’s easy to think (tapping into faith), “This is right where God wants you. In your weakness, He is strong,” and while that might be true, I would’ve wanted to smack anyone who said that to me. I was in a pit where bright sides and silver linings couldn’t penetrate the darkness. Any superpower I had, or thought I had, was effectively neutralized. I scoffed at every Christian cliché I heard or ever uttered. I couldn’t reconcile a “good God” with the anguish and heartache our family was facing. I was going through the motions the best I could, but underneath a thin veneer, I was fragile, often on the edge of breaking.
I was sad and angry all the time. Have you ever been in a place like that?
Thankfully, another of my everyday superpowers is the ability to think rationally when my mind and emotions are whack-a-doodle. I understood I needed help, and the solution wasn’t Pollyanna. I reached out to my doctor. I confided in people who loved me and who my rational mind knew I could trust. People with whom I could be honest about the ugliness and unbelief I was feeling. People who would listen and pray, not try to fix me. People who would know the right time to point me to Jesus, not shove Him in my face. People with everyday superpowers I desperately needed.
And, then there was my sister — who was suffering the most — yet intuitively understood how I felt. “Be positive!” she’d chirp when we’d video chat, making a checkmark in front of her heart with her thumb and index finger while simultaneously clicking her tongue, parroting how her husband uses the same words and gestures to encourage her.
Initially, I wanted to smack her, too. I’d smile politely, irritated at and disappointed in myself that she was the one with a terminal brain tumor, and I wasn’t rallying her.
But God was at work. He heard the prayers of those interceding, and the Holy Spirit tended my heart. “Be positive” became a battle cry. This wasn’t my Pollyanna disposition resurfacing. Being positive became a powerful act of resistance against the darkness around and within me. This wasn’t any superpower. This was God’s supernatural power at work.
“I waited patiently for the Lord to help me,
and he turned to me and heard my cry.
He lifted me out of the pit of despair,
out of the mud and the mire.
He set my feet on solid ground
and steadied me as I walked along.
He has given me a new song to sing,
a hymn of praise to our God.“
Psalm 40:1-3 NLT
In my dark pit, I needed the supernatural power of Jesus. He met me there and lifted me out of my despair. And He keeps meeting me through His Word and prayer. Through vulnerability and medical support. Through the everyday superpowers of friends and family. Through those whose faith is strong and those, like my sister, whose body is weak. Superpowers birthed from supernatural power are remarkable. How so?
God’s supernatural power empowers you and me to resist the fiery darts of the enemy. His promises are no trite cliché but our precious lived grace.
Might we dare to ask God to use the everyday superpowers He’s knit into our DNA for someone who’s hurting? We never know whose day, whose life, it could change.
Madeline says
Robin, this was “super” powerful. You summed up so much of what I feel from being that Pollyanna to the lows, to the darkness. It is hard sometimes to remember God has it all in hand and is watching out for me. And that sometimes I don’t want to hear that from well meaning people. I want my pity party. Thankfully, I have a daughter who sets me straight and is not afraid to tell her mother to get over it, and get out there and do good things for I am blessed.
Robin Dance says
Madeline,
Well, you made me grin super big :D. How special to have that kind of relationship with your daughter. She sounds strong and wise. The apple must’ve not fallen far :).
Lisa Wilt says
Robin,
I also have a family member (Debby) who has a brain tumor(GBM). As I lift her up in prayer, I will lift your sister up in prayer.
Thank you for your devotion. I shared it x2!
Lisa
Robin Dance says
Oh, Lisa…I will pray for Debby this morning <3.
Thank you for the way you offer encouragement to our writers and everyone who crosses your path. We're grateful for your social shares, too!!
Laurie says
This was very timely. I have been walking through the mud and the mire as of late. I need the reminder that God walks right along side me. Also, my sincere thoughts and prayers for you as regards your sister’s situation. I lost my sister and best friend about five and a half years ago to ALS. I swear she was more positive through the whole experience than I was. There is a hole in my heart that will never heal, but I know she’s with God and smiling.
Robin Dance says
((Laurie)) Sending you hugs…. This life can be so hard. Thank God for God! <3
Janet W says
Thank you for sharing Robin. Prayers for you and your family. Thank you for reminding us “what we have to give is special and the world hasn’t been the same since we were born.”
I’m grateful that I can be how God made me today. I can share, uplift, smile, listen and pray for someone \0/
Robin Dance says
Yes, Janet…you get it! You can be all those things, and when you are, you’re a gift to others, you’re glorifying God, and making the best kind of difference.
Dianne says
Superpowers built on faith in Him aren’t just fluffy, pie-in-the-sky, wishful thinking. They’re born of the reality that we serve a God who never expects us to just work it out ourselves, loves is deeply and always, is always faithful, and will never leave nor forsake us. Love you, my friend. Praying for you and your sister.
Robin Dance says
Gah, Dianne…this is SO good: “…They’re born of the reality that we serve a God who never expects us to just work it out ourselves…” (So grateful for your prayers <3)
Stephanie says
This is right on! ❤️ My first thought was “I wish I had read this 2 or 3 years ago because this is exactly where I was.” But on second thought, looking back, as I slowly started to heal last year, I wouldn’t have been ready to hear it. I believe, at least from my experience, that horrible loss and grief often lead to a pit of sorrow. And doubting God, His love and does He really know what’s going on down here? For me, this was a part of the process and one I think God understands. I just kept putting one foot in front of the other (even though I wanted to quit) , re-reading David Powlinson’s article “Sanctification Is A Direction,” even if I was “face down in the mud”… for a little while anyway. Thank you Robin!
Robin Dance says
Stephanie,
Yes, ma’am…I DO think that God understands. The way you (we) process and what it takes to get to where He wants us to go. There are times when I tell myself, “Breathe in, breathe out…right foot, left foot.” Sounds like you’d get what I mean :). And, now, you’ve sent me off in search of Powlinson’s article! 🙂 Thanks for reading, commenting, and sharing your life with us (in)gals.
Yvonne says
I, too, used to “wear rose colored glasses” as a friend once put it, but then I had several years of darkness and lost them. Your story has reminded me to lean on God and to find my joy again, in Him, through Him, and with Him. Who knows, maybe the glasses will also be found.
Robin Dance says
Yvonne,
So much of the life of faith, I’ve found, is for the body to remind us what we already know (but sometimes forget). Rose-colored glasses, to me, are seeing the way God sees :). Hope you DO find ’em!!
Susan G. says
Robin,
I just hung on every word you wrote here… These are the truths that we experience when we surrender everything to our loving God and trust Him with our whole being that He and only He can heal us, give us hope, give us peace, and sustain us till we see Him face to face.
Your superpower is your gift of writing. I’ve mentioned to you before in a comment that I miss reading your posts every month!
I am praying that you are soon to depart this dark season, that many of us know all too well.
He is our faithful God and will never fail us…
Sending love and hugs and thankfulness for you!
Robin Dance says
((Susan)) One of your superpowers is definitely cheerleading in the faith. I’m so grateful to you, for your wisdom and encouragement through the years. Praying God’s blessings over YOU this morning! <3
Beth Williams says
Robin,
Prayers for your sister. May God send healing touch to her quickly. Fall of 2022 I, too, hit a dark, depressive time. My job suddenly changed-(for the worse in my opinion). Not much could get me out of my muck. Finally I consulted my doctor, a few friends & prayed hard. God was at work. He changed my job to something I enjoy. His love & Holy Spirit’s guiding helped me to stay positive. Now I’m the one encouraging others. You can find me singing or humming Christian songs as I work. Trying hard to uplift others & brighten their days.
Blessings 🙂