Tsh Oxenreider
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Tsh Oxenreider is the author of Notes From a Blue Bike and the founder of The Art of Simple. She's host of The Simple Show, and her passion is to inspire people that 'living simply' means making room for more of the stuff that really matters, and that the right,...

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  1. ‘We are His children, and just as we don’t love our own children because of how useful they are to us, neither does God’s love for us depend on how productive we are in our days.’

    Love this line, love this post! I’m all about being, rather than doing and the doing coming from a place of being, if you get my drift! Originally, I too would have always thought about the ‘big’ productive stuff, but in recent years and with the arrival of my first baby a few months back, God is really teaching me how the little things can make such a big difference.

    Definitely going to share this post in my Weekend Reads over on my blog, thanks!

  2. Tsh,
    What a wonderful and refreshing post. No matter what phase of life we are in, there is always the mundane. Like you said, God did not create us to be useful, He created us out of His good pleasure to have an intimate relationship with Him. When I am tempted to become a human “doing” instead of a human “being”, I remember that even in my doing, I am totally reliant on Him (apart from me you can do nothing). Thanks for a great perspective adjustment!

  3. god has been whispering this in my ear lately and your post is one more loving reminder that this season i am in of doing less ‘big stuff’ is absolutely a season of god doing ‘big stuff” in me rather than through me. taking deep breath to take in your encouragement. thank you tsh. xo –kris

    • I couldn’t have said it any better than you, Kris. I am in a hard season of restlessness, wondering what my purpose is and wondering what God is going to do next (as if every waking moment wasn’t His next for me). And, lately, He has been speaking this into my heart. Thank you, Tsh, for this wonderful, much needed, affirmation. It’s going into the save folder.

  4. “No matter where I am or what roles I’ve been given, the point of my life is not usefulness, but in knowing God and enjoying Him forever”

    “We are His children, and just as we don’t love our own children because of how useful they are to us, neither does God’s love for us depend on how productive we are in our days.”

    These two statements really resonated with me today. Thank you for sharing this morning!

  5. I totally agree. It’s easy to forget in our purpose driven productivity induced hyper culture but yes, it really is about knowing God and enjoying him.

    • Ha! So accurately said: “our purpose driven productivity induced hyper culture”

      It is a disease! To which we all fall pray…

  6. I think I just copied almost this entire post into my folder about the glorious ordinary. Thank you thank you thank you, Tsh. Also just ordered that book. Booyah – a good start to Friday.

  7. I didn’t move across the world, but I did move 500 miles away from all my family and friends – my entire support structure – to set up a home, have a child, quit working and stay home full-time.

    Oh my GOSH, there have been days when it was so hard, so lonely and so frustrating. Thoughts of “what am I doing?” nipped at my peace over and over.

    I came to realize that God had me (and still has me) exactly where he wants me. On my knees, daily, unable to do any of this without Him.

    I’m being drawn to Him continually, and He’s used my circumstances to bring me closer.

    This quote lingers with me:

    “Every cross is a message from God and intended to do us good in the end. Trials are intended to make us think, to wean us from the world, to send us to the Bible, to drive us to our knees.
    Health is a good thing, but sickness is far better if it leads us to God. Prosperity is a great mercy, but adversity is a greater one if it brings us to Christ.”
    – J.C. Ryle

    Thanks for your post. Timely – I still need this reminder every day!

  8. Love this beautiful reminder to slow down and just BE – and to stop looking for the big things and realize all the little things ARE the big things! Thank you for this wise post- I wish I’d learned these things years ago, but better late than never!

  9. Yesterday my six-year-old daughter asked me, “What did you do today, Mom?”
    I wondered, Really, what did I DO? What did I PRODUCE? What am I PROUD of?
    Her innocent question brought me back to my devotional time that lately has been packed with questions about my purpose and how I can hear God’s direction for my life. I’ve been running scared, as if mediocrity is right behind me, reaching out to yank the back of my shirt.
    “He is passionately wild about us, even when the majority of our waking hours are spent in the everydayness of it all.”
    Thanks, Tsh, for another reminder that I can be faithful in the ordinary parts of life.

  10. Though my child-rearing days are behind me, I SO remember the mind-numbing routines that occupied those days. What wisdom you are bringing to the situation, Tsh! And thank you for sharing that quote from Paul Stevens’ book. “Nothing wasted; nothing lost,” he says. Powerful words to remember as we wash dishes, fold laundry, etc. Turning those mindless tasks into visits with God, especially worship of him, does have a tremendous impact on our spirits and attitudes.

  11. Hi Tsh,

    This is such a necessary reminder. My life has changed so much from what I thought I heard the Lord say to me when when my youngest left home. Not ever ever anticipating this turn of events. Going from a near empty nester to adopting 2 tiny boys who are now two and three years this year.

    Second round of family. Feeling lost and so unused, going from relative freedom to being back home. Being involved with new work I loved and was a contributor, and could see the difference in people’s lives, and was myself stimulated. Now back to perpetual being tired, constant messes, lack of adult conversation, and continual house chores and sibling squabbles, and a tough time of even a start to my day time spent with Jesus. Going between being over the top challenged with the behavior of the boys, and the constant re-direction and discipline, and back to very mundane housework.

    I can’t put my finger on everything you said, but the tone of what your article said spoke to me right where my thoughts are and where I am in my life right now. I sense the Lord saying this is important, the very mundaneness (it’s a word now) of what I am doing is right where I need to be.

    I have sensed restlessness in myself for a while, and couldn’t put into words what was going on in the inside of myself. You just explained in your article what was swirling around in me. In a way, it felt like life was passing me by. I realize now, it’s not passing me by.

    Because the majority of my friends are empty nesters, and my schedule and theirs don’t cross often, and not for lack of caring on either part, I have joined MOPS. I realize I will be the oldest one there, but that’s okay. I’m in sort of the same season they are, I just also happen to be a grandmother too.

    Thank you for your gift today.



  12. thank you this is how i feel, i was pulled out of relationship, the mission field and like minded Christian friends and family to a new city. Im not doing anything really, no african jungle, no exciting testimony but mundane, stuff looking after people etc. i was wondering why i was still here, could He not take me home if im not going to do anything important. motherhood is important, working at big job is important i have neither, just to help someone who needs help. I suppose it is that important to God, in the little stuff.

  13. thank you! I SO needed to hear this today. My husband and I were talking about this very subject last night. I’m a mother of grown children and I love the Lord and serve in many ways but still feel so useless. I am slowly (much TOO slowly) coming to the conclusion that I need to just enjoy each day for what it is and be more proactive at making this my “hopeful goal” too! —-” intimacy with God, knowing Him as a true Father and friend.”

  14. A sweet reminder of what our Father desires most, relationship with Him. Whether we’re in foreign land figuratively or physically. Been there, even in Turkey actually, and while the purpose was cloudy in the midst of it all glorifying Him should have always been the ultimate goal. Thanks for sharing and encouraging.

  15. God may have been using you in ways you cannot fathom.
    In most countries, Americans are not looked on fondly….we’re labeled as arrogant, wanting everything in English, unwilling to mingle with the Natives or simply “hang out”, unwilling to learn the language….just setting ourselves apart from.
    Yet here you were, raising your children among the Natives, hanging out, making forays into the language and culture…..being a Mom WITH other Moms IN another country. Who knows what pathways you paved for someone else’s work down the road?
    And yes, without a doubt, He was also doing His good and perfect work WITHIN you.
    AND your children were exposed to a vast array of cultures, so that they are not as “set in their ways” as many folks are…..they have a wordless understanding that “differentness’s are good, are rich are worth getting to know”.
    No doubt about it, He’s prepared a way, and you and your family have been His hands and feet.
    Thank You.

  16. Tsh,

    This is a beautiful reminder that we can enjoy every moment when we are enjoying the presence of God…and that God Himself is content with being with us even in the mundane!

    Love and Blessings,

  17. “He is passionately wild about us, even when the majority of our waking hours are spent in the everydayness of it all.”

    Love this!

  18. Jess shared the quote I love best, too. I need to be reminded that my God is passionately wild about me! Thanks much for your encouragement!

  19. That word “useful” is reverberating in my head, it seems to be what I’ve been wanting (for so long, I’m ashamed to say.) But It’s one of those things I’d never say someone else had to be, you know? I’ve had some times when I thought my solitude was God’s way of drawing me closer & I guess I thought there was still something else I had to do first! Thank you for a better perspective.

  20. To know God and enjoy Him forever. Beautiful.

    After 14 years in the Middle East, I often feel exactly like you did. We get so caught up in doing “great things” for God, when knowing Him and serving Him simply are what matter. My most valuable ministry here is cooking meals for guests. Simple.

  21. There are many missionary wives and Moms all over the world who need to hear this. I have been in Kenya with my husband and family for nearly eleven years now, and sometimes there is that whisper from the enemy suggesting it’s a farce, a waste, I ould have been a wife and Mum back home, what am I really doing for the Kingdom? Thank you for writing this and being open, and for heling us right skewed perspectives to be in line with the Father’s heart.

  22. Exactly what I needed at this very moment. I have been feeling agitated because of so much down time but I have kept reminding myself that in God’s timing I would be made to understand why. I have a very deep relationship with God but your message is confirmation that I need to know Him better. God’ s timing is awesome!